Topic: Can you let me know what you think.
leapoffaith1972's photo
Wed 09/25/13 07:41 PM
So I have this exact profile up on another dating site and I get allot of looks, but very few emails. Wondering what I'm doing wrong?

Thank you for your input!

shegoat's photo
Wed 09/25/13 07:47 PM
have faith..faith^_^

lovestowork88's photo
Wed 09/25/13 08:16 PM
id say its what there doing wrong. hope you find your match !!

moneylow7's photo
Wed 09/25/13 08:49 PM
I think it's good I would have mailed you if you were online.

moneylow7's photo
Wed 09/25/13 08:49 PM
I think it's good I would have messaged you if you were online.

Movie07's photo
Wed 09/25/13 08:56 PM
flowerforyou :smile:
Hello n Good Luck

csouth's photo
Wed 09/25/13 09:06 PM
Are you looking for the right sex? you are hot!

csouth's photo
Wed 09/25/13 09:06 PM
Are you looking for the right sex? you are hot!

leapoffaith1972's photo
Thu 09/26/13 07:45 AM

id say its what there doing wrong. hope you find your match !!



Thank you :)

leapoffaith1972's photo
Thu 09/26/13 07:46 AM

I think it's good I would have messaged you if you were online.



Thank you :)

leapoffaith1972's photo
Thu 09/26/13 07:46 AM

flowerforyou :smile:
Hello n Good Luck


Hello and thank you!

leapoffaith1972's photo
Thu 09/26/13 07:48 AM

Are you looking for the right sex? you are hot!


Thank you! :)

Usnooze_Ulose's photo
Thu 09/26/13 09:27 AM
Hi. You seem quite a catch! As for your profile, works for me, but I think it can be improved in several ways: First, for the guys with poor attention spans, you might want to pick 5 words that describe your interests/desires. Put the five words at the top, separated by a comma on the first line by themselvss.
Next: You seem awesome; and I dont mean to critize you here, but you come across as a girl scout. You have lots of very important good qualities; a beautiful woman for sure.
But guys aren't looking for girl scouts. They want to know about your intimacy preferences. Do you have an Alpha personality, or are you a little submissive with the right guy? Could you mention a few things you enjoy in the bedroom? (Let's face it, guys are guys).
Next, I know you are looking for a high quality man and you dont want to attract all the dogs. But if you look at your description of who you are looking for, you will see that you are asking the man to be all of these exceptional qualities such as smart, loving, loyal, understanding, sharing, etc. A lot of guys are going to read that, and think to themselves, geez, I'm a nice guy, but I dont think I can meet all those real high standards. So maybe delete all that, and instead mention that you are looking for a nice, regular guy who uses initiative in meeting others (you get the idea).
Finally, again, I can see that you are a very decent woman who does not want to give the wrong idea. But I think you should try to post a couple of photos that are a little more revealing, and show your sexy side. This can be done tastefully with a little effort, and you dont have to look like a French whore.
Just my thoughts, you are right. A lady like you should be getting a lot more attention from your profile. Best wishes, I know you will find your man. hugs

Usnooze_Ulose's photo
Thu 09/26/13 09:41 AM
Hi shegoat. Poor profile. Quite poor. (Sorry). First, change your name. Shegoat? Be real!
Almost as bad as having jillass as a name! Next, you are in China, I believe? I dont even see your country of domicle listed. And how can people be friends with you when you live so far away from most English speaking, reading and writing people? Are you mostly looking for friends living in your part of the world, or will you also accept friends via email and chat from far away?
Finally, you are a lovely looking lady, but your photos do not show your natural beauty. I know that for your nationality, you must be discreet in your photos. But you could do a lot better. How about a full length modest photo of you (close up) in a nice gown that shows off your pretty curves? Something like that? Best wishes, hugs

leapoffaith1972's photo
Thu 09/26/13 12:30 PM

Hi. You seem quite a catch! As for your profile, works for me, but I think it can be improved in several ways: First, for the guys with poor attention spans, you might want to pick 5 words that describe your interests/desires. Put the five words at the top, separated by a comma on the first line by themselvss.
Next: You seem awesome; and I dont mean to critize you here, but you come across as a girl scout. You have lots of very important good qualities; a beautiful woman for sure.
But guys aren't looking for girl scouts. They want to know about your intimacy preferences. Do you have an Alpha personality, or are you a little submissive with the right guy? Could you mention a few things you enjoy in the bedroom? (Let's face it, guys are guys).
Next, I know you are looking for a high quality man and you dont want to attract all the dogs. But if you look at your description of who you are looking for, you will see that you are asking the man to be all of these exceptional qualities such as smart, loving, loyal, understanding, sharing, etc. A lot of guys are going to read that, and think to themselves, geez, I'm a nice guy, but I dont think I can meet all those real high standards. So maybe delete all that, and instead mention that you are looking for a nice, regular guy who uses initiative in meeting others (you get the idea).
Finally, again, I can see that you are a very decent woman who does not want to give the wrong idea. But I think you should try to post a couple of photos that are a little more revealing, and show your sexy side. This can be done tastefully with a little effort, and you dont have to look like a French whore.
Just my thoughts, you are right. A lady like you should be getting a lot more attention from your profile. Best wishes, I know you will find your man. hugs


Hello, Thank you for the honesty. I well look to make some of those changes and see how it goes.