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Topic: What to do?
lvino19 Joined Sat 10/05/13 Posts: 24	Sat 10/26/13 04:17 PM
Hello everyone, so here's the problem. So you're talking to this person, who you see as a friend. But she/he mistakenly takes it the wrong way. Now that person is going around and telling others that you're in a relationship with her/him. Nope, no SEXS was involve. You're just trying to be a great friend who doesn't want to hurt their feelings. How would you resolve the issue?

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33263	Sat 10/26/13 04:29 PM
Hello everyone, so here's the problem. So you're talking to this person, who you see as a friend. But she/he mistakenly takes it the wrong way. Now that person is going around and telling others that you're in a relationship with her/him. Nope, no SEXS was involve. You're just trying to be a great friend who doesn't want to hurt their feelings. How would you resolve the issue? I'd say talk to that person and explain very very clearly how you feel.

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Sat 10/26/13 04:36 PM
AS you get older experience tells you not to rush to judgments because sometimes things are not what they seem.At your age just be honest and nice try not to hurt her feelings because one day you will find yourself in the same position as her.

lvino19 Joined Sat 10/05/13 Posts: 24	Sat 10/26/13 05:08 PM
Thanks, well it's kind of hard to talk to her. She's really in insecure, (i guess having a abusive father have to do with that.) Not sure if i should even quote that in here, i just don't want her to feel even more insecure and which could lead to something serious. Thanks, for your explanation and much appreciated =)

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/26/13 05:08 PM
Hello everyone, so here's the problem. So you're talking to this person, who you see as a friend. But she/he mistakenly takes it the wrong way. Now that person is going around and telling others that you're in a relationship with her/him. Nope, no SEXS was involve. You're just trying to be a great friend who doesn't want to hurt their feelings. How would you resolve the issue? I'd say talk to that person and explain very very clearly how you feel. This.

paintecards01 Joined Wed 09/11/13 Posts: 4725	Sat 10/26/13 05:13 PM
It's best to tell her upfront, instead of letting it drag on, it will save her more embarrassment later.

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