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Topic: trusting some one you barely know
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Mon 12/30/13 03:36 AM
Totally agree, afterall pictures no matter what the size come out tiny on mobile browser so a chick is definitely gonna want to go to another source quickly... But that's just my 2cents

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Mon 12/30/13 07:53 AM
Edited by Viper1j on Mon 12/30/13 07:59 AM
A woman wanting to meet a man somewhere alone? Something's wrong with that picture, big time!


No shite! What's up with that? Women NEVER get lonely. slaphead

Any woman that says she' lonely has GOT to be nothing but a scammer. rofl

Let me guess, you've never been on a date, or you're gay.. right?


Thanks for your comments and I understand what you mean. In the OP's situation he has only just started to correspond with the lady, and I now make these requests right at the beginning usually the second email if they have said they are interested in me. This maybe too early I agree, but I am only wanting to correspond with someone who is genuine in that they are who they say they are, and genuine in their interest towards me, and prepared to make an effort. There is no insult intended, and I explain that I am only wanting to establish from my perspective they are a real and genuine person, and I believe most people understand where I am coming from, even when they don't want to be bothered with meeting my request, as some have already made clear to me. All too much hassle for them.


You're forgetting "the rules".

First, you spend years "talking" in emails, before you advance to "chatting" on a webcam. Then after two years of chatting on a webcam you're officially "engaged". You may, or may not choose to send her a virtual engagement ring. She will register the event online of course, and you will have a bachelor party at PokerStars.com

Then everyone will gather at the Yahoo cam chatroom for the "wedding", after which you may then legally engage in internet sex with your new bride. rofl

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Mon 12/30/13 08:01 AM

A woman wanting to meet a man somewhere alone? Something's wrong with that picture, big time!


only thing wrong with that picture is that you really can;t trust someone in today's world till you've got to know them at least a little. After that, once we know each other, meeting alone? ya, i mean I don;t do the group thing....lol

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Mon 12/30/13 11:54 AM
I would say there is nothing wrong with meeting some one alone. Just choose a place with a fair number of people so you have some safety if thing get weird or go wrong.

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Tue 12/31/13 04:48 AM
I have shut off chat... just scammers there. Be very careful. If it sounds too good to be true, it usually is a scam... read your comments here, many have good advise

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