Topic: Help me
Wonder59's photo
Tue 02/04/14 06:08 PM
New at this site. Is there any good man left out there? That wants a faithful, good heart, honest woman, that doesn't even do drama, n I'm not player n don't want a player, is there anybody?? Be nice

mightymoe's photo
Tue 02/04/14 07:36 PM

New at this site. Is there any good man left out there? That wants a faithful, good heart, honest woman, that doesn't even do drama, n I'm not player n don't want a player, is there anybody?? Be nice


one or two left, i think...
welcome to mingle
flowerforyou

singlecowboy4370's photo
Tue 02/04/14 07:42 PM


New at this site. Is there any good man left out there? That wants a faithful, good heart, honest woman, that doesn't even do drama, n I'm not player n don't want a player, is there anybody?? Be nice


one or two left, i think...
welcome to mingle
flowerforyou



yes there are , we work on cattle stations in the outback of AUSTRALIA

Ph0nyx's photo
Tue 02/04/14 08:02 PM
They exist. Finding/meeting the right person takes time and patience too. It's good that you're up and ready for the whole deal with being in a relationship but the deal with finding the right person for anyone also requires them to be in the right place for you too. Since everyone is also is an individual in an individual place, you may have to be patient for a bit. It also happens to everyone at some point or another so don't let the passage of time make you judge yourself inappropriately.

This also isn't a bad thing. You're clearly putting yourself in a position to meet people and you're leaving yourself open to be discovered. This also means that you're going to be able to talk, ask questions and get to know people who want to get to know you. So use the "hang time" that you have between "meeting people" and "officially declaring you're in a relationship with '(Put person's name here when applicable)' " to see who the people interested in you are. Times when we are single are also times when we are sort of put in places where we can improve our line of sight, resolve any internal conflicts, build communication skills, and build our own understandings of ourselves & other people. So this isn't exactly like you're in a void, this is more like you're in a place that you can maneuver and grow more as who you are. Granted, it's not the same gratification or kind of growth as having a "significant other" sharing life with you would be. You know this, I know this, other onlookers will notice this, forest critters probably know this... However, when you put it into context with the idea of finding "Mr. or Ms. Right"/"Your Soul Mate"/"The Person For you" (or however you want to word it) for anyone, at least one out of the two sides of a soul mate needs to be able to see (and distinguish) the other 1/2 of the soul mate set up. This actually gives you time and the ability to make sure you can see them for yourself when they do appear as well as making sure they can see you are for them in return.

Otherwise chill, be real, be open, ask questions, talk and remember that it's a two way street.

no photo
Tue 02/04/14 08:10 PM

They exist. Finding/meeting the right person takes time and patience too. It's good that you're up and ready for the whole deal with being in a relationship but the deal with finding the right person for anyone also requires them to be in the right place for you too. Since everyone is also is an individual in an individual place, you may have to be patient for a bit. It also happens to everyone at some point or another so don't let the passage of time make you judge yourself inappropriately.

This also isn't a bad thing. You're clearly putting yourself in a position to meet people and you're leaving yourself open to be discovered. This also means that you're going to be able to talk, ask questions and get to know people who want to get to know you. So use the "hang time" that you have between "meeting people" and "officially declaring you're in a relationship with '(Put person's name here when applicable)' " to see who the people interested in you are. Times when we are single are also times when we are sort of put in places where we can improve our line of sight, resolve any internal conflicts, build communication skills, and build our own understandings of ourselves & other people. So this isn't exactly like you're in a void, this is more like you're in a place that you can maneuver and grow more as who you are. Granted, it's not the same gratification or kind of growth as having a "significant other" sharing life with you would be. You know this, I know this, other onlookers will notice this, forest critters probably know this... However, when you put it into context with the idea of finding "Mr. or Ms. Right"/"Your Soul Mate"/"The Person For you" (or however you want to word it) for anyone, at least one out of the two sides of a soul mate needs to be able to see (and distinguish) the other 1/2 of the soul mate set up. This actually gives you time and the ability to make sure you can see them for yourself when they do appear as well as making sure they can see you are for them in return.

Otherwise chill, be real, be open, ask questions, talk and remember that it's a two way street.

PacificStar48's photo
Tue 02/04/14 08:29 PM
Yup there are good guys here but you got to find them for yourself. It is after hours my helpful spirit is off duty. lol Not really Just jump in read some threads and give it your best shot.