And Nicki is doing the happy dance
I finally got hot water but I also got dumped last night

One question for all you guys out there:

Why do men feel that it is necessary to hit a girl in the face when they are either drunk or just plain pissed?

a MAN doesn't hit a woman at anytime only weak little boys do that.

Tough one but I sure would not tolerate any one hitting a women physically.
Emotionally now was he send signals of prob that were not noticed

Lots of them out there i guess

You shoulda been doing the dumping if he get physical.

We had been seeing each other for about 2 weeks and I just kept saying
NO
And he came into the bar where i work and got drunk and I had to shut him off and he didn't take it very well

there you go.
Is the plumber a hottie maybe oppertunity is knocking

No

my sister just sent me a joke maybe this will help
A Japanese doctor says, "Medicine in my country is so advanced that
we can
take a kidney out of one man, put it in another, and have him out
looking
for work in six weeks."

A German doctor says, "That is nothing. We can take a lung out of one
person, put it in another, and have him out looking for work in four
weeks."

A British doctor says, "In my country medicine is so advanced that
we can
take half a heart out of one person, put it in another, and have
both of
them out looking for work in two weeks."

The Canadian doctor, not to be outdone, interjected, "You guys are way
behind. We took a woman with no brains, sent her to Michigan where she
became Governor, and now half the state is out looking for work."

To prove a point. I remember my ex slapped me in the face and I slapped her back in the face just as hard. It only had to happen one time and after that we found other ways to irritate each other.

Are you saying I could become governor of Michigan?

LOL

yeh sure
I will even do you one better come on up I will give you a warm shower and keep you warm on these cool mornings

oh I left out I won't get drunk or pissed off

All I have is motorcycle and it is getting nipply out

I agree with Sheepdog, a man doesn't do that.

Girls do that sort of thing too, though -- I had a gf who got drunk and tried to stab me with a knife one night.

This is one reason I don't get involve with anyone who drinks anymore, and I don't do it myself either.

Thats ok I have a truck
soon we can be riding snowmobiles

Being drunk or pissed is nothing but just an excuse to use violence and get away with it and to take control of the relationship. This is usually a cycle; once violence begins in a relationship, it is likely to continue and/or escalate. There are many reasons why women stay with abusive partners; this includes love, children, money, and status, among other reasons, but eventually it controls you and takes over your self-esteem and your believe that you can overcome. So please be careful and nip this in the butt.

Good luck to you.

Thanks Crystal Clear I did
BTW there were two other guys in the bar that took him outside and when I got off work he was still laying on the ground in the parking lot.

Crystal is right it is very serious business. Cut your losses quick and get out. I did have a similar experience with one of my daughter BF. He broke her wrist I can honestly say that was the only time in my life I ever felt true anger or rage. The rest is ..................

Hugs and Kisses Caamken