I cant upload my photos pleas tell me how to upload photos or send by email

Are you trying to upload with a mobile device?

Yes am trying by mobile device

How do I upload from an IPhone or IPad?
"I-phone/I-pad users should now see a specific set of instructions, on
the edit photo page. Below are the steps for uploading from an i-phone.

Click the edit photo button on your account page. on the right side of
the page, you should see an address, inside a box. That is a clickable
link. the menu should appear like this...

pbsfai010wzuasya@m.mingle2.com

1. Click on the address above, and copy it. (not on this post, on your
Mingle2 photo page)
2. Open the photo app on your device.
3. Select the photo you want to upload.
4. Tap the screen to bring up the on screen controls.
5. Tap the "send" icon at the far left of the on screen controls.
6. Select the "Email Photo" button.
7. Tap the "To:" textbox at the top to paste the email address
you copied earlier.
8. Tap the "Send" button.

These instructions are only for the I-phone/I-pad users.
Other mobile device users should be able to upload normally."
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(From mobile device)
http://m.mingle2.com

Otherwise: http://mingle2.com/user/edit_photos