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Topic: Seriously, how does one meet someone on this site?
stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 08:02 PM Edited by stephen84usa on Mon 05/12/14 08:02 PM
I cant get a single woman to respond to me and all I'm saying is hello, how are you? Help me out here, what am I not saying? God this is frustrating as hell

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 05/12/14 08:05 PM
I cant get a single woman to respond to me and all I'm saying is hello, how are you? Help me out here, what am I not saying? God this is frustrating as hell what kind of women are u messaging? are they people who would realistically be interested in you?

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 08:09 PM
.. I can't get them to stop responding to me.. let's trade secret..hmm.hay.u.. still not having any luck.r.u. . hmm..

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 08:12 PM
.. okay.. hang on to something everybody.. I just viewed.. your profile.. I know I know I broke my own rule.. but he needs help seriously.. ..jk.. would you like my advice on your profile.. ..

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 08:13 PM
.. okay.. hang on to something everybody.. I just viewed.. your profile.. I know I know I broke my own rule.. but he needs help seriously.. ..jk.. would you like my advice on your profile.. .. ya sure.. go for it

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 08:13 PM
im just messaging locals from las vegas.. not one has responded..

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 08:18 PM
.. ok first get rid of those two pictures were you looking down at the camera.. the one with the umbrella it's okay.. second. . rewrite your profile.. get rid of the I've been hurt by women part.. . no woman wants to hear that... are at least read it right off the bat... . the part about the music is good but shortened. it up... you're a big lover of all types.. of music.. don't say you wouldn't go back to New York.. New York is exciting it's intriguing. . it says adventure.. it says tough guy.. . say something like how you're looking forward to meeting new people.. and you are up for an adventure.. are you!!.ok.. let me know what you think...

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 08:28 PM
.. ok first get rid of those two pictures were you looking down at the camera.. the one with the umbrella it's okay.. second. . rewrite your profile.. get rid of the I've been hurt by women part.. . no woman wants to hear that... are at least read it right off the bat... . the part about the music is good but shortened. it up... you're a big lover of all types.. of music.. don't say you wouldn't go back to New York.. New York is exciting it's intriguing. . it says adventure.. it says tough guy.. . say something like how you're looking forward to meeting new people.. and you are up for an adventure.. are you!!.ok.. let me know what you think... ok i made the edits to my profile

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Mon 05/12/14 08:34 PM
.. ok first get rid of those two pictures were you looking down at the camera.. the one with the umbrella it's okay.. second. . rewrite your profile.. get rid of the I've been hurt by women part.. . no woman wants to hear that... are at least read it right off the bat... . the part about the music is good but shortened. it up... you're a big lover of all types.. of music.. don't say you wouldn't go back to New York.. New York is exciting it's intriguing. . it says adventure.. it says tough guy.. . say something like how you're looking forward to meeting new people.. and you are up for an adventure.. are you!!.ok.. let me know what you think... ok i made the edits to my profile your profile is who you really are. if u don't like NY say so...I don;t like it. it's big noisy & dirty I agree with phd that you don't wanna bash women but after that I think he's mistaken. you can't let him tell u what to put. it's about YOU not him. nothing worse than meeting a guy who is nothing like his profile in real life

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 08:37 PM Edited by no1phD on Mon 05/12/14 08:41 PM
.. no no don't listen to her.. she doesn't know what she's talking about.. you must listen to me now. my brother.. you wanna date don't you.. listen to sweetie no date. . listen to your body PhD lots of dates. . . its a resume.. . you tell the truth but you just in lighting it a bit.. .. he doesn't have to tell them he doesn't like New York.. right off the bat.. it makes him look tough..lol.. . sweetie he needs toughening up.. . not softening up.

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Mon 05/12/14 08:39 PM
Seriously if you focus more on making friends than meeting someone you'll find someone eventually

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 08:40 PM Edited by no1phD on Mon 05/12/14 08:42 PM
Seriously if you focus more on making friends than meeting someone you'll find someone eventually .. he doesn't want eventually he wants right now))).. .hi.u

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 08:42 PM
I can be tough on the outside if i want to be..

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 08:45 PM Edited by stephen84usa on Mon 05/12/14 08:51 PM
I have friends who are women.. i cuddled with one many times before but not any more.. and besides she has a son older than me who is 30.. i wanna find a woman i can cuddle with more often

dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Mon 05/12/14 08:45 PM
Ok. If you don't mind my saying so, your picture is gloomy. But maybe it works for you. My next thing is how do you approach the ladies and which ones do you approach? When I receive messages that say only the word hi or hello I don't even respond. When I receive messages that I can tell the person didn't even take time to read my profile, that shows me, not much interest. I respond to messages that are funny or that reflect something from my profile or the things I posted on the forums. The last thing is what you post on the forums. I have found many people don't participate but they do read the comments. I've followed some of your posts and I will tell you that your mother's day post showed improvement in being positive. Wish you the best

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 08:49 PM
Ok. If you don't mind my saying so, your picture is gloomy. But maybe it works for you. My next thing is how do you approach the ladies and which ones do you approach? When I receive messages that say only the word hi or hello I don't even respond. When I receive messages that I can tell the person didn't even take time to read my profile, that shows me, not much interest. I respond to messages that are funny or that reflect something from my profile or the things I posted on the forums. The last thing is what you post on the forums. I have found many people don't participate but they do read the comments. I've followed some of your posts and I will tell you that your mother's day post showed improvement in being positive. Wish you the best I'M trying to be more positive.... even being as lonely as i am

no1phD Joined Tue 01/07/14 Posts: 27442	Mon 05/12/14 08:50 PM
..^^^so how come you never returned any of my mail ..huh. . . what I'm not funny enough for you..

stephen84usa Joined Fri 01/03/14 Posts: 180	Mon 05/12/14 08:59 PM Edited by stephen84usa on Mon 05/12/14 08:59 PM
I was at barnes n nobles again today and i saw the most gorgeous woman.. .... i wish i said something to her...

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Mon 05/12/14 09:00 PM
Seriously if you focus more on making friends than meeting someone you'll find someone eventually .. he doesn't want eventually he wants right now))).. .hi.u Well right now is only for people who want a quick lay lol hi no1 how are you?

4evababy Joined Tue 02/26/13 Posts: 9258	Mon 05/12/14 09:01 PM
Be brave with women, confidence and knowing what you want will win in the end, and I agree a better pic maybe closer up and smiling