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Here's a question I pose for you all: Do you believe men and women who are promiscuous (go with lust and not feelings when they sleep around) have abandonment issues from their parents? No. I think it's our radical change in moral codes, cultures, over the last few decades and sexually independent people don't care what other people think about our personal choices anymore. Do people who didn't/don't feel loved by their parents have sex with random strangers trying to find love? Sure. But so do people who were/are loved by their parents. As far as waiting to have sex until you have feelings... well...  feelings is what drives you to have sex in the first place...  I've known several "Preachers Daughters" who were very much loved and sheltered by both their parents while also being thoroughly instructed on the perils of sin and lusting after the flesh. After they became sexually active you'd think they were spawns of the devil himself. Some say its to spite their parents strict moral codes by flaunting their independence and personal choice. So do some nuts fall far from their trees? Hell yes... and we keep on rolling as far away as gravity will take us...  
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Well sleeping around could come from a variety of reasons: lack of love, stress reliever, just being whorish, or she might just be exploring, however it's hardly ever one reason....
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Well sleeping around could come from a variety of reasons: lack of love, stress reliever, just being whorish, or she might just be exploring, however it's hardly ever one reason....
Some may even be under the impression that it's a way of discovering love |
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just as (sadly) we no longer are driven or even widely encouraged to make food choices based upon longterm health benefits (or risks) we also no longer are driven or even widely encourage to make our sexual choices based upon longterm heatlh benefits (or risks) just the temporary and immediate satisfaction,, has become enough for many,,, That's the exact kind of mind set I do believe is responsible for relationships not being worth as much as they once were. People on a general note these days only worry or care about the here and now. They aren't looking tomorrow, or their future in this same context. People just figure they can get better or just in general someone else. So with that, they aren't worried about loosing the one they're with. It's despicable :/ it is sad,, I struggle with the feelings myself,,,it is attached to just about everything in our culture(sex and sexuality that is) not to say that there aren't also well founded reasons for relationships to end, like abuse in the present and in the potential future,, and the wellbeing of kids involved,,, |
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