that you find someone you might be interested in then they email you and you do not reply back in what they consider a timely manner and they get upset???
do they not know you have a life?
what is with an email stating something like i wrote you and i think it is inconsiderate that you were online and did not respond back---??????
OMG!!!!!

LOL....So you can't be online comunicating w/ other people....you have to just focus on the one at hand!! LOL....sounds a bit egotistical to me. (but what do I know? LOL)

It would show me that they are into CONTROL.
Want things their way & hard to compromise.
RED FLAG

sounds like a little jealousy amiss

don't want to ruffle feathers but just to let oyu know -- many times I leave my computer on and leave myself in a site while I'm off running ..... this will show others that I'm online BUT infact I'm not on the computer
Just wanted to let you know that they might not really be there.
Don't be too hard OK

HAve a great day --- off ot work I go :) this time I'm shutting down my computer heehee

me 2--
i will leave mine on and go downstairs or take a shower..and if i am online--does it matter?

I have heard the same things. You are on-line alot and you didn't email back. I, too, leave the house with the computer on.

he was kind of obsessive-- sent me 9 pictures on my cell while i was at work and told him i was busy!!!
he had the nerves to say i was and he thought we should not write anymore---
the only intelligent thing about him: he can assess when something will not work!

i do not want to sound rude--- but come on!!!
not like we were in a relationship!!!!!

Nine pics - uh, oh.

I went on a date one time. He sent me 24 text messages in one hour. See ya later!

Joyce your such a sweetie but I agree sounds like they were into control

i agree-- i want to be admired and looked at by someone special--cute little notes, but realize that i have other obligations like work and also that i have friends. of coarse i want to spend most of my time with someone special, but give me breathing room. i am not going to ask you-- who is on the phone everytime you answer it or where were you at 7pm on friday. i do not go looking for stuff. if it was going on it will surface like everything does-- plus everyone needs their space-- and feel like they can be trusted. jeeeeezzzzzz

thank you pkh!!!
i think the same about you!!!

I agree, i've had guys tell me the same thing i sent you an instant message but u didnt reply? I normally stay signed on to all the sites I vist cuz its easier to be signed in then to remember the passwords I have. LOL if the get mad cuz of something that childish they shouldn't be dating.

At least your getting e-mails...

this was his email:
I didn't like that you felt it fine not to -
have called me while you were home.(doing nothing)
Especially considering you had told me you would.
I took the time to send you all those pics,
& you didn't even acknowledge them.
Not to mention any of my emails.
Also, when we speak it seems as if you -
really aren't interested in talking, etc.
Along with the inconsideration you've shown,
I think it best we discontinue contact.

his reply to mine:
oh please, the issue was inconsideration, not jealousy.
l require attention, & don't like being made to feel on stand-by.
l've been f****d over too much in past & I -
refuse to allow myself to get caught up with someone who's uncaring

OKAY---jeeeez am i wrong?
i require attention also but not 24/7
breathe

Too much control, is trying to be exerted.
Thing what he must be like in a relationship

nurjoyce,
seems like you have or had a stalker, come on people, we do have lives and we tend to answer the emails as we can. jeez is right, come on people lets all get a life and be polite if someone cant get to you soon. i know that i feel bad when someone doesnt reply but it doesnt mean i hunt them down to get an answer. if its meant to be they will reply.

anyone that knows me....knows i am one of the most caring people around!!!!! i am always getting into relationship where i give too much and get taken advantage of.
those pictures were sent after i told him i was very busy at work--which by the way i called him to tell him!!!
and he continued and deleted all my battery life so i was without a cell phone on my hour drive home in the dark!