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Topic: Why older women?
madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Tue 08/19/14 10:38 PM
Because the men our age have desired the much younger women...sooooo...that leaves the younger guys for the older women... Seriously, they either want to be taught something, or they appreciate the level of maturity, or they're after an easy life hoping to get their hands on what you've worked your whole life to attain. It can be a very good thing or a very bad thing, so you need to be sure they are after you for all the right reasons. Don't rule them out but be cautious and never underestimate motives. forgot one they may assume the older woman will just shower them with appreciation for the 'privilege' of their youthful company a spin on the gold digging woman, but its a young male and the gold is gifts and support and attention

CarolinaJ Joined Sat 04/05/14 Posts: 1	Wed 08/20/14 12:21 AM
I think that's because opder women know what they want, they are more confident, have more experience. And of course less drama.

midnighttoker11 Joined Sun 08/10/14 Posts: 43	Wed 08/20/14 01:41 AM
older, younger, middle age, as long we like each others company & have a good time in & out of bed that'll do for me

isaac_dede Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 10632	Wed 08/20/14 02:20 AM
ok, here is the truth. from almost every guy I know (myself included) on why..... most if the younger generation are inherently lazy. ..so here it is older women are often easier to get(for the short term), there's a built in escape clause, and require less work overall. The competition isn't as tough as it is for women the same age group.

Husker5347 Joined Tue 02/04/14 Posts: 263	Wed 08/20/14 07:00 AM
I think the majority are just looking to experiment and work on their sexual prowess i was kinda leaning toward that answer myself Oh so now we are a "test site". LOL! Well, young or old it takes time for me to move to the physical part of a relationship so the "lab" is closed until I know they are interested in me as a person first. JMO!

TheDognbutterfly Joined Thu 08/14/14 Posts: 10	Wed 08/20/14 03:39 PM
Because we want to have fun and experience life where ever that takes us in life we raised our babies and cant have any

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 08/20/14 03:40 PM
Better question. Why NOT older women?

2469nascar Joined Fri 11/22/13 Posts: 5231	Wed 08/20/14 03:56 PM
Better question. Why NOT older women? your not older,your middle age silly, but i can act like iam 25 again if that works for you, or should i say if that will get me a date with you,,HEHEHE

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Wed 08/20/14 04:16 PM
Better question. Why NOT older women? your not older,your middle age silly, but i can act like iam 25 again if that works for you, or should i say if that will get me a date with you,,HEHEHE You don't want a date with me. I'm more trouble than I look...lol...

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24652	Wed 08/20/14 09:15 PM
Yep!

Amelinng Joined Tue 08/12/14 Posts: 1547	Wed 08/20/14 09:22 PM
Hmmm....interesting!! No wonder I am getting so much attention from the younger men out there!! And the older men are looking at the younger women.....!!! Not much attention from people in our age gap..... !! But sometimes (note...sometimes, not generalising), it is quite difficult to get an intelligent chat with the younger ones!! And the minute they declare 'undying love' or something of that sort....the red flag is waving!! A lot to learn from old timers from IM here!

sisimi85 Joined Thu 06/26/14 Posts: 4	Thu 08/21/14 12:25 PM
In my own veiw of point older woman are more expericence and matured.

bashajones Joined Fri 08/08/14 Posts: 7943	Thu 08/21/14 12:49 PM
Yep! Thank you, Peanut Gallery....

gavink83 Joined Wed 08/06/14 Posts: 101	Thu 08/21/14 04:40 PM
I think that's because opder women know what they want, they are more confident, have more experience. And of course less drama. EXACTLY

gavink83 Joined Wed 08/06/14 Posts: 101	Thu 08/21/14 04:42 PM
In reading another post in here asking if a woman would date a much younger man, it made me wonder why, more so recently, are younger men asking me out more than men my age? So, the question is more for the men... what is it about older women that the younger men seem to like? we are more mature than girls our age can comprehend,,,they are under the impression that sexual maturity is being more mature than maturity itself....best i have figured it,,,if you can make sense of that

Beachfarmer Joined Tue 04/17/07 Posts: 24652	Thu 08/21/14 08:32 PM
They like to bounce!

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Thu 08/21/14 08:46 PM
lmao

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Thu 08/21/14 09:12 PM
Experience, class, maturity, beauty.

gavink83 Joined Wed 08/06/14 Posts: 101	Fri 08/22/14 12:02 AM
I think the younger guys like getting there shirts tucked in and there shoes tied the morning after.!! im just looking for equal assets, financially ,,,,har har har har...

gavink83 Joined Wed 08/06/14 Posts: 101	Fri 08/22/14 12:03 AM
older, younger, middle age, as long we like each others company & have a good time in & out of bed that'll do for me hes not picky,,,lol