All of me would be thiers as they share all of themselves........up's and down's are all part of the deal. Deal with those, and you have it made.

love is

now, do your thing boys and girls

so should the word unconditonal be eliminated and in place used the word acceptable love

traits that you will accept, ones that you can live with, ones you can't live with

what about what you consider the bad traits of yourself? Do you have to change these or do you feel that a person who loves you will work on improving those traits?

thoughts please



oh if you haven't realized by now I do love to debate and I am one that truly believes that no one answer is the right answer

* i have a career/goals
* honest
* i will challenge you to be better
* self-confident
* i will help you through when you are sad
* i listen and actually pays attention
* i will look at you with that special glare
* spontaneous and fun
* i notice notices the small stuff
* i will compliment you especially in front of people
* respect
* i will give you space
* romantic (holding hands, cuddling)
* i will better myself
* does not cheat/ only has eyes for you
* i knows how to compromise and sacrifice for
the relationship
* loyal
* stable

A partner, someone to help pick up the slack when it hits the fan. An ear when someone needs to be heard. Love, no matter what. Someone that encourages. A person that will accept them for who they are. Stability, loyalty, honesty. And a great chocolate cake.

deviled eggs.

i will bring me if you will bring you....

but i believe in unconditional love. it is like unconditional surrender in warfare - except both sides surrender and this is how each side wins...

which reminds me...

oh - and i'll have a side order of deviled eggs "to go"

In the question of what I would bring to a relationship. Hmm. Determination to make it work once mutual committment is established, A long family history, Devotion to my mate, (I have noticed that even with a girlfriend I tend to not see anyone else.) The ability to figure things out quickly. Mechanically, electrically, or structurally. The willingness to be an anchor for my partner in any storm. My love and desire for children. My full range of emotions with love, kindness, and caring at the top of the list.I'm sure I've just scratched the surface of what I'll bring to a relationship.

Gypsy, I believe you're wrong about the "Unconditional love" thing. just because things sometimes don't work out as we think they should in a relationship, doesn't mean that we don't or won't keep loving the other person anyway. this is a grownup world and i know that probably all of us have been hurt by someone we love but still, we love that person regardless of what they have done. i believe if you don't love a person unconditionally, you really don't love them at all.....just my personal opinion.

youre prolly right on that account.......there are only a few people I have "unconditionally" loved and they werent my husbands....

Grape flavored Pez and only a carry on baq...

Luggage from former relationships should be discarded.

potato salad

peanut butter cookies.......burnt

Me and Brownies....

Me

unconditional love

An ability to empathise with the other person
Discernment
patience to endure
allow them time to build trust and be able to open up and share thoughts/feelings
loyalty

things I need:
honesty and integrity
A strong man: a bit of an Alpha male, a little beta (but well blended!)

Unconditional love (Agape love - that which is God given): yes I believe in it, but also know that does not exclude the necessity to walk away if given a choice between good and evil.

I'll bring a covered dish and a case of beer

i don't bring anything except a nicely toned body, naked, chocolate sauce, and a ShOcKiNgLy LARGE















































$$bank balance$$

I forgot to mention the boy and a psycho ex gf who I can't stand.