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Topic: Using Online Dating To Find Someone Worthy
Tomishereagain's photo
Mon 12/22/14 09:11 PM
Some good points and lots of sarcasm - as expected.
I am seeing who is who by post counts.
Which in itself is another tool.

To feel inferior from someone using the word "worthy" is another tell-tale. I have met unworthy and they are abundant. I do not infer that I am superior to anyone. I am just another human being on the same planet. I do however, know what qualities in other human beings are worthy to me. We all do. Worth is value.

Notice how the high post counts hijack the discussion. Is it because they no longer have the urge or the faith to participate in a real discussion or is it because they are so jaded by rejection for so long that they can't bear someone else having any say.

Thanks for showing me that this forum is no different.

Dodo_David's photo
Mon 12/22/14 09:13 PM
Why is the title of this thread a synonym for "Fail"?

davidben1's photo
Mon 12/22/14 09:32 PM
Edited by davidben1 on Mon 12/22/14 09:34 PM
as the brain instruct it self to define, so doth it sea.

some see narrowly, defining their own methods, albeit perfect for them, should fit all, and should help construct the perception and reality of others...

and then write and speak from the same perspective.

but such is knowledge of 1, transposed as a controlling initiative upon others as to how to achieve best results.

when best results for each are based upon the total unique personality, time, space, experience, values, wants, aspirations and qualities of each human being singularly and uniquely.

but then what can think others need to know, what one self knows, lest it first believe others do not know what one self knows...

hence such being the tell of first assessment of defining the self intellect or knowing as self superior...

can such notions accepted by one of it self, be duly recognized by other equal brains of equal function?

and accurately access validity in their own perception when such notion's are displayed in written words.

absolutely.

Argo's photo
Mon 12/22/14 09:45 PM

Some good points and lots of sarcasm - as expected.
I am seeing who is who by post counts.
Which in itself is another tool.
Notice how the high post counts hijack the discussion. Is it because they no longer have the urge or the faith to participate in a real discussion or is it because they are so jaded by rejection for so long that they can't bear someone else having any say.
Thanks for showing me that this forum is no different.

in the first sentence of your OP you say you're an experienced online user so please ignore my low post count.....now you're determining who is who by a persons post count and then dissing anyone as jaded by rejection because they have a high count.....whats that say about your worthiness ?

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Tue 12/23/14 12:20 PM
I like the way you put ur ideas together , that's what I think my choice!

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Tue 12/23/14 01:09 PM
No one told me you were holding a Mingle Workshop!! :tongue:

Good luck OP...

davidben1's photo
Tue 12/23/14 01:13 PM

No one told me you were holding a Mingle Workshop!! :tongue:

Good luck OP...


pure damn wisdom unadulterated did mingle capture.

metalwing's photo
Tue 12/23/14 02:48 PM


I dont know if I would throw around words like 'worthy' if I were you, but I get what you're trina say.


KLC, Worthy is a defining word and is powerful. If being worthy is detrimental, you might want to look at why? Not trying to be mean but don't we all want someone Worthy?

I have a lot of pride in myself and I love myself. It would be stupid of me to accept someone that is not worthy of my love and there are many that are not.

She was trying to help you there.
Using that particular word on a website like this smacks of
superiority and presumption, no matter how you spin it.




I was about to say something similar but I couldn't have worded it better. Worthy may not have been successful adjective at the other sites and I would bet that it's use here would not be seen in a positive light by most.

Having a low post count usually means one doesn't know all one could know about what works and what doesn't. Sites have personalities just like people.

Ɔʎɹɐx's photo
Thu 12/25/14 02:34 AM
just a piece of advice , make your paragraphs shorter ....

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