Topic: So.....
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Thu 01/15/15 05:20 AM
Most people login to chatrooms and these dating websites and just keep them open as a sidebar to something else that they are doing so effectively even though it shows them as online here, you get no response, moreover relationships have become so complex now that instead of just fearlessly voicing your thoughts about someone in terms of you liking them or wanting to start something with them you just blankly look at their profile and wonder "what if?" with your mouse cursor over the message or nudge buttonsfrustrated ......thoughts?

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Thu 01/15/15 05:45 AM

Most people login to chatrooms and these dating websites and just keep them open as a sidebar to something else that they are doing so effectively even though it shows them as online here, you get no response, moreover relationships have become so complex now that instead of just fearlessly voicing your thoughts about someone in terms of you liking them or wanting to start something with them you just blankly look at their profile and wonder "what if?" with your mouse cursor over the message or nudge buttonsfrustrated ......thoughts?


Am somehow guilty of some of the above.....i sign in,come into the forums,read a bit,then get back to work,while still logged in!! But then,I usually reply to mails,some out of politeness,some when am interested in the sender....the creepies,I totally ignore!!!
But,I also know that replying is not a must..... So,if I wrote a guy and he didn't reply,I wouldn't hold it against them!!

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Thu 01/15/15 06:24 AM
Edited by micheldomin on Thu 01/15/15 06:28 AM
Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing because most people take relationships too lightly nowadays drinks

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Thu 01/15/15 06:28 AM

Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing drinks


I say,
Enjoy your own spoilings while you wait for who you seek..... But,you'd do well still,by reaching out more....expand the search area,join the forums in their different departments.....you never know!!

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Thu 01/15/15 06:29 AM

Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing because most people take relationships too lightly nowadays drinks

Therapeutic, time waster, electronic addition.

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Thu 01/15/15 06:31 AM
Yeah that's 1 way to approach it I guess....still, why does dating have to be so complicated nowadays (rhetorical question), it's like applying for a job at NASA haha

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Thu 01/15/15 06:33 AM
haha you hit the nail on the head (high 5) smh, this world needs a relationship do over :P

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Thu 01/15/15 07:31 AM
I patiently repond messages before but now I learned and sorry for those who kept on sending me a message. I Most injoy here at the forum.:smile:

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Thu 01/15/15 07:38 AM


Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing because most people take relationships too lightly nowadays drinks

Therapeutic, time waster, electronic addiction.


addiction, not addition.

couldn't edit, seems odd, still same log in session. huh

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Thu 01/15/15 07:38 AM

I patiently repond messages before but now I learned and sorry for those who kept on sending me a message. I Most injoy here at the forum.:smile:



Yeah, if a person constantly messages you despite you not replying then that's a sign of intense desperation and usually such people aren't what you'd call normal enough to ignite a long lasting and proper relationship with....

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Thu 01/15/15 07:41 AM



Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing because most people take relationships too lightly nowadays drinks

Therapeutic, time waster, electronic addiction.


addiction, not addition.

couldn't edit, seems odd, still same log in session. huh


haha i gotcha. I guess the main thing nowadays is people wanna stay connected while they isolate which is why they run to the internet and internet dating is more common than "in real life", also people like living a lie as in on the internet I can be whoever I wanna be or you want me to be but in real life, I'm probably a schmuck or a hobo :-/ that was harsh but that's the best way that I can bluntly put it :P

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Thu 01/15/15 07:43 AM




Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing because most people take relationships too lightly nowadays drinks

Therapeutic, time waster, electronic addiction.


addiction, not addition.

couldn't edit, seems odd, still same log in session. huh


haha i gotcha. I guess the main thing nowadays is people wanna stay connected while they isolate which is why they run to the internet and internet dating is more common than "in real life", also people like living a lie as in on the internet I can be whoever I wanna be or you want me to be but in real life, I'm probably a schmuck or a hobo :-/ that was harsh but that's the best way that I can bluntly put it :P




Damn, I'm goin off topic now offtopic okay back on track, dating should be easier than rocket science :banana:

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Thu 01/15/15 07:48 AM




Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing because most people take relationships too lightly nowadays drinks

Therapeutic, time waster, electronic addiction.


addiction, not addition.

couldn't edit, seems odd, still same log in session. huh


haha i gotcha. I guess the main thing nowadays is people wanna stay connected while they isolate which is why they run to the internet and internet dating is more common than "in real life", also people like living a lie as in on the internet I can be whoever I wanna be or you want me to be but in real life, I'm probably a schmuck or a hobo :-/ that was harsh but that's the best way that I can bluntly put it :P



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Thu 01/15/15 07:57 AM



Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing because most people take relationships too lightly nowadays drinks

Therapeutic, time waster, electronic addiction.


addiction, not addition.

couldn't edit, seems odd, still same log in session. huh


Again?..your last one was...

That was dicktaste not dictate ..Remember that? Lol jk


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Thu 01/15/15 08:00 AM




Well...from my standpoint, that's totally fair but most people join these websites but don't actually do what you usually would come here to do haha the world is upside down and its getting worse but anywho while it's sad, i guess the silver lining is you get to stay single longer which is maybe a good thing because most people take relationships too lightly nowadays drinks

Therapeutic, time waster, electronic addiction.


addiction, not addition.

couldn't edit, seems odd, still same log in session. huh


Again?..your last one was...

That was dicktaste not dictate ..Remember that? Lol jk




You're pretty funny this morning, are ya pony? Got yer shirt on yet?