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Topic: Ugly Me
dreamerana Joined Sat 09/21/13 Posts: 21544	Tue 01/20/15 02:03 PM
hi Totage, im not s person who looks for dates. I believe in friendship first and then see what may develop. you're a person who is worth making friends with. from your picture, you're not bad looking. from what I've seen of your posts, you're someone with a good heart who has undergone some very difficult times. but then, unless we're one of the young kids on here, who hasn't? my question is do you feel you deserve to be loved just as much as anyone else? if you don't, you're what holds yourself back. for whatever my opinion is worth, I think you are worth getting to know

theseacoast Joined Wed 07/09/14 Posts: 7419	Tue 01/20/15 02:58 PM
hi Totage, im not s person who looks for dates. I believe in friendship first and then see what may develop. you're a person who is worth making friends with. from your picture, you're not bad looking. from what I've seen of your posts, you're someone with a good heart who has undergone some very difficult times. but then, unless we're one of the young kids on here, who hasn't? my question is do you feel you deserve to be loved just as much as anyone else? if you don't, you're what holds yourself back. for whatever my opinion is worth, I think you are worth getting to know agree with everything

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 01/21/15 08:51 AM
Thank you all for your feedback and insight. Ive been going through one of life's storms lately, and these Ohio winters and me do not get along, so that just agitates my issues more, but the storm is nearing the end and soon I will be having fun in the sun. Things are getting better for me and my future is bright. I wish you all the best, truly.

CremeBrulee Joined Tue 11/06/12 Posts: 2726	Wed 01/21/15 08:57 AM
Thank you all for your feedback and insight. Ive been going through one of life's storms lately, and these Ohio winters and me do not get along, so that just agitates my issues more, but the storm is nearing the end and soon I will be having fun in the sun. Things are getting better for me and my future is bright. I wish you all the best, truly. Yaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy

JOSIEBETH Joined Wed 01/14/15 Posts: 76	Wed 01/21/15 09:56 AM
I wasn't going for a profile critique, more so curious as to how my posts in the forums come across and what says "Next" according to my posts in the forums. ..,okey,watever you said,but for me youre not ugly,..youre handsome nga so u drink yakult everyday:-)jejeje!...

LisaGreen54 Joined Fri 10/10/14 Posts: 276	Wed 01/21/15 12:35 PM
You are a very sweet guy, you have a smile that would melt any heart, if I were younger I would date you and prolly fall in love with you based on the things we have already shared I know you and I know someday a girl is gonna be very lucky to have you

2KidsMom Joined Tue 09/30/08 Posts: 58206	Wed 01/21/15 12:42 PM Edited by 2KidsMom on Wed 01/21/15 12:42 PM
it is a honest and nice profile.You need to look in clean, sober places for her. oh and you are very handsome:))

Noa41 Joined Tue 01/06/15 Posts: 943	Wed 01/21/15 07:02 PM
I agree with the confidence post by ChrystalFairy. You can be a bit cocky, but you need to control it. I go overboard sometimes :) If you know your stuff, you get away with a bit more.

markc48 Joined Wed 05/07/08 Posts: 5536	Wed 01/21/15 08:46 PM
Have you ever heard of the thirteenth step.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 01/21/15 10:36 PM
Have you ever heard of the thirteenth step. I have lol Are we talking about the same step?

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Thu 01/22/15 06:30 PM
Have you ever heard of the thirteenth step. Is the 13th step to have a relationship without relapse?

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Thu 01/22/15 08:02 PM
Have you ever heard of the thirteenth step. Is the 13th step to have a relationship without relapse? If its the same one Im thinking it is, no. lol

jacktrades Joined Tue 09/11/12 Posts: 4395	Fri 01/23/15 12:11 AM
I think your a very honest, sincere, and smart man who is not afraid to admit you have stumbled and fell just like the rest of us at sometime in our lives. I am sure you will make some woman very happy with these qualities. Best of luck to you Totage.

tanyaann Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 32220	Fri 01/23/15 08:11 AM
Have you ever heard of the thirteenth step. Is the 13th step to have a relationship without relapse? If its the same one Im thinking it is, no. lol I am a residental substance abuse therapist but I am not versed in 12 step.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 01/23/15 08:58 AM
There's only 12 steps, but various jokes about a 13th step.

HoneyFly Joined Mon 01/27/14 Posts: 1962	Sat 01/24/15 04:42 AM
You look like Drake. You post like Drake's mom. You may be Drake's real biological father. Anyhow, I'll **** Drake's lookalike whether or not under the influence. But cheers Tot for the 123 Steps!

messi_is_a_tim_1888 Joined Fri 11/28/14 Posts: 3309	Sat 01/24/15 04:44 AM
On ye go Totage? Yer in there mate? Yee-ha!