if you ask some body a question,wait a spell for th answer,and none
happen...is th none respones then th answer?

just more food for thought...LADIES? GUYS?don't be shy....M.

or is the "none answer" a rude way to answer???

it seems like they don't have the balls to answer or they don't know.

sometimes even when you "answer" some people don't want to accept the
"answer" and turn it into a "none answer" to suit their purpose.
If you get an "answer" accept it for what it is and leave it alone...
If you get absolutely NO response, then leave it alone...that is your
"answer"...

that's real...I'm speachless...understood...but th question still
remains...unanswered....M.
but if you have something to say to me...you know my addy....M.

for sometimes th first answer has more than 1 meaning....M.

I think they won't answer,
because they're afraid of getting cancer!
People need to know,
you won't get cancer.
If sexual question is asked, and gets a sexual answer.
So that ends the show!

SO NOW WAIT A MINUTE.
SO if I got this right? does the question act as an anwser on all
non-reply's or do some replys act as questions to the question? I have
to ask? Can a anwser come before the question?

"Iam"...this is th same thing I am asking?

HELLO'OOOOOOOOO WE NEED SOME ANSWER"S HERE
MICHAEL and I NEED TO FIGURE OUT WHAT WE THINK WE SEE verse's READING
WHAT WE SAW?????
HELP US, PLEASE

oh,oh ,,,it's one of them non answers...lol...M.

but she was not th only folks I was talking to,or about,,,

I don't know how this (POST"S) work? Do they clear old ones out on a
regular time frame or do THEY edit out what they want? Or do the posts
just randomly keep re-a pearing for e-v-e-r-----?Anyone know?

posts do not get cleared out and you can go back and reply to an old one
to bring it back up to the front.

you have pages upon pages of topics in each category to go back through
or you can create a new one. most people do not want to search through
the old pages(this site doesn't have a search option)so they create a
new post of an old topic.

In other words, don't push the situation...and yes, at times you do get
an answer before a question, it's called intuition...especially
women...sometimes we get a feeling, or a "vibe" about something or
someone and choose to let them go, no explanation necessary...men try
and make women feel that they "owe" them an explanation when one really
is not required...I'm sure this goes both ways...so I am not beating up
on you guys...but women and men think so differently on particualar
subjects...for instance:
A woman says to a guy...can't we just be friends, the guy takes this as
a brush off and goes on..and the girl is left wondering what happened...
A guy says to a girl...can't we just be friends, the woman accepts it,
or not...but it is not a brush off...
I am speaking of honest mature individuals of course...
and it also depends on your concept of "friends"...so
it is a circle I guess...
Personlly if someone has something to talk to me about, do it in
private, not in the forums..it is childish and immature...especially
about personal subjects...

so how do you ask a "personal question if you are blocked for a time,
and do not know if you can even reach this person or not,
as they have not given th answer to th question???.......M.

look y'all,,,just asking th air for this answer,,,no person
specificly,,,just needs to know,,,thought it was a good topic?

If you get no answer…that can be an answer. If someone is rude, crude,
or obnoxious and they ask me a question that reflects this…then yes, my
no answer is an answer. I am not obliged to give anyone an answer if
they ask me a question, it is up to the person to give an answer or not.
For instance, someone emailed me and asked if I was married, do I have
children, and what do I like to do…well that tells me they did not take
the time to read my profile and I will not answer him.

Ms."Clare" Thank You for th answer,you have now helped this bone headed
cat figure a few things out,without th riddles of
waiting,for th answer,with no reply!.................M.