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Topic: Questions
smartwithsparks's photo
Mon 03/02/15 05:12 PM

I think a lot of ppl got in a rut of sorts when they're have been on dating-sites for a long time? I've noticed a lot of men (don't know about women) aren't interested in a normal conversation. They seem to feel it's okay to bombard you with questions. I think they want to establish with the minimum 'waste' of time whether you could be a possible match or not. Whether you're worth their time and attention. Kind of like it's simply a meat market.

Typically these men get PO when you raise the issue and tell them you don't like to be interrogated, but prefer a normal conversation. And after being PO, they're gone, off to the next target. And typically they won't tell you anything about themselves. They will answer your questions, but that doesn't make for a nice 'get to know each other' conversation.

I think they've been through so many 'conversations' online that they simply can't be @r$ed to approach you in a normal fashion. They don't want to waste time, first want to know whether you're worth it.

Really a stupid MO. You wouldn't use it in a pub or other social gathering would you?

Most popular questions:
- How long have you been on this site? (none of your ****ing business!)
- Do you date often (none of your ****ing business!)
- What are you looking for. (Errr... a bloke that doesn't ask this many questions for starters!)

Always rattles my cage. Reminds me of The Who, "Who are you, who the f**k are you!!!" ---> "Who the feck do you think you are, interrogating me like that?!"


That Was Said perfectly..
why Would I Share Any Part Of My Personal,Life With Anyone I Dont know

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Mon 03/02/15 05:18 PM

I think a lot of ppl got in a rut of sorts when they're have been on dating-sites for a long time? I've noticed a lot of men (don't know about women) aren't interested in a normal conversation. They seem to feel it's okay to bombard you with questions. I think they want to establish with the minimum 'waste' of time whether you could be a possible match or not. Whether you're worth their time and attention. Kind of like it's simply a meat market.

Typically these men get PO when you raise the issue and tell them you don't like to be interrogated, but prefer a normal conversation. And after being PO, they're gone, off to the next target. And typically they won't tell you anything about themselves. They will answer your questions, but that doesn't make for a nice 'get to know each other' conversation.

I think they've been through so many 'conversations' online that they simply can't be @r$ed to approach you in a normal fashion. They don't want to waste time, first want to know whether you're worth it.

Really a stupid MO. You wouldn't use it in a pub or other social gathering would you?

Most popular questions:
- How long have you been on this site? (none of your ****ing business!)
- Do you date often (none of your ****ing business!)
- What are you looking for. (Errr... a bloke that doesn't ask this many questions for starters!)

Always rattles my cage. Reminds me of The Who, "Who are you, who the f**k are you!!!" ---> "Who the feck do you think you are, interrogating me like that?!"



I have had this happen a couple of times myself. I don't feel like I should have to pass some test.whoa

2469nascar's photo
Mon 03/02/15 07:24 PM



Kind of hard to get to know someone if you don't ask questions... whoa

AAAAAA ya. for a sec i thought i was doing something wrong.I ask a lot of questions be for i meet someone online. Like could you wash my car with that sexy azz.:laughing:


I would be like do you see a buffer on this azz??whoa:laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


That is what they have drive through car washes for... bigsmile

Leaves time, to do other things....:wink:
OK You got me on that one.


smartwithsparks's photo
Thu 03/05/15 06:38 PM
I Question Agendas..
And Tend To Seek Red Flags
Im Always Suspicious

Zuglo65's photo
Thu 03/05/15 06:48 PM
Funny I am suspicious when she doesn't ask questions.
spock

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