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Topic: Would you ever consider a relationship....
theseacoast's photo
Wed 03/25/15 12:50 PM
Not the same but similar. Similar in a views on life, intentions, basic nature, but I know were my gaps are, so it woud be nice if he would be fulfill those gaps.

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Wed 03/25/15 12:59 PM
Would I date myself, only if I promised myself that I'll stop hairbrush singing in the bathroomohwell

Justfun_1's photo
Wed 03/25/15 01:09 PM
A similar outlook on life would be good,not a worrier ! Sensuality,sarcasm,a love of music and travel.But other interests and ideas would be good,as the saying goes,'variety is the spice of life'. She could be a little overweight,as long as she is curvaceous.But the main attraction would be eyes,smile,and personality.I would soon forget about any imperfections (as i would hope she did with mine),as long as the conversation and laughter was to flow freely...
But i would get bored quickly if she was too much like me...surprises are nice :smile:

MadDog1974's photo
Wed 03/25/15 01:20 PM
Definitely not! Of course I would want someone who is similar in important ways and shares certain identical beliefs and values, but if everything about her is exactly the same that would be a very boring relationship.

BrownTeaz's photo
Wed 03/25/15 01:56 PM

with an identical version of yourself in your EXACT same CIRCUMSTANCES, assume everything else is equal, honest, loving, etc...i understand that everyone will have a tendency to say 'yes' because i'm the 'most honest' or 'most giving' etc...i've ever met...let's take that out of the equation and focus on CIRCUMSTANCES or PHYSICALITY alone.

For example, if you are a single mom living at home with your parents, would you even consider a single dad living at home with his parents? Same reasons on both sides.

Or say for example, if you are over-weight yourself, do you even consider a person who is approximately the same as yourself?

Just an interesting exercise i think...step back and ask yourself "would i date me?"

Interesting question in my mind.


Good question Isaac, got me thinking there. Would I date me? Probably not. I can be a handful at times, I don't know if I could be able to handle 'me'.

I still wonder sometimes how my long term past boyfriend's coped with me he he he

...but maybe I'm not so bad...

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Wed 03/25/15 02:52 PM

A similar outlook on life would be good,not a worrier ! Sensuality,sarcasm,a love of music and travel.But other interests and ideas would be good,as the saying goes,'variety is the spice of life'. She could be a little overweight,as long as she is curvaceous.But the main attraction would be eyes,smile,and personality.I would soon forget about any imperfections (as i would hope she did with mine),as long as the conversation and laughter was to flow freely...
But i would get bored quickly if she was too much like me...surprises are nice :smile:

Not a worrier, good one...
And you could even tune my drum kit ...
BTW sounds like you're a typical Aquarian :)

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