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Topic: i have a question
sportsnut69's photo
Tue 10/09/07 08:50 PM
is talking to the girl u have been going out with on im, and chsatting eith onother girl on another site concidered cheating

wouldee's photo
Tue 10/09/07 08:57 PM
oops... gotta be good at multi-tasking. It's like juggling...saw it when I was a kid at the circus

Nikita777's photo
Tue 10/09/07 08:57 PM
well if you're only talking to the girl on im, it's not going out so i wouldn't say you're cheating on her if you talk to someone else

soligoth's photo
Tue 10/09/07 08:58 PM
despite what they say even the thought of another girl is cheating.

Jtevans's photo
Tue 10/09/07 08:58 PM
hell i consider that s having a back up plan laugh laugh laugh :wink: drinker

Draven84's photo
Tue 10/09/07 08:58 PM
I wouldn't think of it as cheating. Since you are "technically" not involved with this person.

sportsnut69's photo
Tue 10/09/07 08:59 PM
no the girl on im and ihave actually went out. we had lunch in a real resturant today and we went to a real movie a couple weeks ago

no photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:00 PM
Question for you, how would you feel if she were talking to another guy in an IM? I mean, sure it may just be innocent but it has to make you wonder.huh

tessa68's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:01 PM
well it depends if you are already committed to one of them them your still chatting with others yes its considered cheating.......

soligoth's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:01 PM
from her prospective you are expendable, without loyalty of your thoughts you are inharently disloyal

soligoth's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:06 PM
i was just saying what my male hateing lesbian mother drilled into my skull

no photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:06 PM
Are you honest with both? and Do both feel Ok with this? I don't think I would feel comfortable unless the other girl was Bonny's friend first. I would also not engage, or encourage splitting your own feelings in this way.

mg

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:07 PM
As long as they both know you are talking to more than one-
its not cheating.
After all this is a date site- thats what we are supposed to be doing.

soligoth's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:15 PM
i intended to make it sound worse than it really was, mother only hates one man. she however likes her baby son

Jess642's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:17 PM
Hahahahaha I agree with Goth..

It seems many women get their knickers bunched by talking with others...thinking of others, looking at others..even standing near others...

Keep your eyes averted, don't speak and keep all limbs in the vehicle at all times...

laugh laugh

Some men are like that too....what a wild world it is..bigsmile

no photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:19 PM
you have to ask the people involed for that answer. all out siders are just a way to justife what your doing.

soligoth's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:20 PM
i do beleive people are expendable, that is not to say its not sad or upsetting when they are gone, but just in how life and love work. people CAN be replaced and in alot of cases fogoten

Jess642's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:22 PM
Hang on....what are the promises here?

Talking with people is just that communicating....why does gender have to twist everything..

If you are promising all sorts of exclusivity with any of these women, Sportsnut....and you are being a multple offender....best get protective gear, you are gonna need it...

soligoth's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:30 PM
we men are mearly the stormtroopers in the way the forming womens world

Jess642's photo
Tue 10/09/07 09:33 PM
laugh laugh

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