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Topic: love at first sight
joycaadamos's photo
Sun 08/09/15 06:15 AM
I think, when you have a strong connection with someone the spark would be immediately there during the first time you talk or glance at each other. I don't believe in falling in love, I believe in growing love. There should be the very first time strong connection with someone before anything else happens. ;-)

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Sun 08/09/15 06:27 AM

Does it really happen or is that something for the movies and works of fiction?


No, it does not exist, nor is it rational.
I do think as science shows, that there is " mural attraction and/ or lust at first site ".. Like airborne pheromones.

But the actual bonding process, takes much longer than people realize..
Just like making it work, takes more work than people realize, & takes a daily effort for both.

Most people panic, when the "honeymoon phase " is over, & interpert that as "love is gone" so they assume relationship is over... which actually is, if you are thinking that way.

honest254237's photo
Sun 08/09/15 06:28 AM
Back then when we were in high school it used to happen, coz you would meet a girl during functions and if you did not open your heart to her at that moment you were sure that may be you will never see her again. But at this time of my age I don't think it's possible. It would look like a joke.

tanyaann's photo
Sun 08/09/15 06:41 AM
Yes, there is love at first sight. But, doesn't mean it will last, work out or lead to marriage. Love isn't some strong mind blowing experience with fireworks. Love is gentle, love is kind, love is patient... etc.

Experience love at first sight with man people.... my children, friends... not just romantic interests.

kaps_karan's photo
Sun 08/09/15 06:47 AM
I don't think it happens in real life...

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Sun 08/09/15 07:30 PM
I believe love is a choice. So if you choose to love that person that moment you see them I guess you can love at first sight.
But you don't know what you're getting. I personally don't believe in love at first sight. You choose to love a person, flaws and all.

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Sun 08/09/15 09:41 PM
Edited by IamwhoIam1 on Sun 08/09/15 09:41 PM
This topic is still going. I stand by what I wrote back in July.

Sat 07/18/15 05:25 PM
Every man I loved, I knew when I first saw him that he was special. I rarely like anyone so the chosen few were love at first sight and I believe in it. My heart always knows who the special ones are right away. A lot of people are not as deeply attuned to their emotions so they do not recognize love at first sight.




BlakkBronzy's photo
Mon 08/10/15 01:29 PM
loving someone at first sight is cool if you have been a victim

fajarpriambodo's photo
Mon 08/10/15 06:50 PM
love stems from the view then felt hearts

fajarpriambodo's photo
Mon 08/10/15 06:56 PM
first love, new love, last love

Taka92's photo
Mon 08/10/15 08:15 PM
love at first sight actualy exist......love is more of spiritual than physical......than bond btn u n the girl ..u can feel it the moment u set yo eyes on her........yo soulmate...... its like u jus saw yoself... love at first sight is there

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