Topic: Do Women prefer men to make contact first?
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Mon 10/15/07 04:46 AM
would never click on anyone that size mattered to.....ohwell


<<<<<<<<<<exit stage left:wink:

anouk's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:53 AM
and then again nothing happenslaugh



yawn

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Mon 10/15/07 04:56 AM
i rarely contact the woman first.i've tried doing it and have nad no replies,so i figure why waste the time?.so now i let them contact me if they're interested indifferent

im2fun's photo
Mon 10/15/07 04:56 AM
I had a mutual match and part of his profile intriqued me and we started communicating, and he is coming this weekend for a visit. If we connect like we do on the phone it will be great. Possibility of another couple, we'll see

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Mon 10/15/07 05:03 AM
Awweee, Jt, a charming young man like you, who wouldn't give you a chance eh. You know if you are laidback, might miss out noway happy

WTG im2fun!! Hope all goes well with you both! happy

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Mon 10/15/07 05:04 AM
thank you sin, I will be really nervous, but it will be worth it he is awesome. will keep in touch flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 10/15/07 05:08 AM
sin,i'm letting Neo (aka Humphrey)pick all my matches for me now.i'll just go for what he choses smokin

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Mon 10/15/07 05:11 AM
So you will need pics and details for Neo to bring in some honey

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Mon 10/15/07 05:12 AM
it's just about gotten to the point of where i am just going to sit back and let people contact me. i have done the majority of contacting myself, and i am getting a little bit frustrated.
Becca

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Mon 10/15/07 05:12 AM
well yeah...:tongue:

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Mon 10/15/07 05:16 AM
Wonder if half of them are bogus profiles

See Jt, there's a nice looking girl one up from you ...happy

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Mon 10/15/07 05:20 AM
I doubt it matters what's on a profile, it could easily be fake.

I've found I get more of a response just talking to people and let them find out about me themselves.

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Mon 10/15/07 05:26 AM
I like that joshy...I enjoy interacting with members on the forums and have learned alot about them from their sense of awareness, humour, likes, wants, culture, blah blah...and most of all laughing together over our own silliness.

Sometimes one can get too serious about everything instead of taking a breather and go with a steady beat...happy

tmay2000's photo
Mon 10/15/07 05:29 AM
so litt;e nicky is such a grate movie

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Mon 10/15/07 06:57 AM
if I see a profile I like I will email them:wink:

if you set back and wait for someone you are interested in to cantact you, he/she may have found someone elsehuh

carpe diem

seize the day, although a more literal translation of "carpe" would be "pluck" (pluck the day), as in the picking or plucking of fruit.

just go for it
what have you got to lose
you may just make a great friend


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Mon 10/15/07 07:09 AM
I rarely message someone, and i didn't know that the favourites were there for a reason, I'm new to this, and deleted all my favorites, so I probably just lost 50 potential dates, you say?

If someone messages me, I usually respond back, unless I am busy.

But they don't talk to me long, must be my attitude eh? oh well...

lilwabbit's photo
Mon 10/15/07 07:17 AM
if i see someone i like i will usually make first contact. or somehow show them i have an interest in them. but alot of guys seem too bashful to make the first contact. if you talk to me ill atleast talk to you and get to know you before i make a decision.

lilwabbit's photo
Mon 10/15/07 07:17 AM
now if jt contacted me....i would deffinentally write backlaugh

kojack's photo
Mon 10/15/07 07:27 AM
I always initiate contact, but then again i am a people person.

HillFolk's photo
Mon 10/15/07 07:32 AM
I view JSH as purgatory now.laugh