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You are so selfish.... you never make time for me....lol.. has being alone on your own all these years made you into a selfish person.. you have become so used to doing what you want when you want to.. that now when you get into a relationship.. you have forgotten how to share your time.. do you think you are selfish.. .. when it comes to making time for your new partner Well the assumption that I have been alone is a bit off but yes I am trying to be selfish at this point in my life. I think I have earned the right to be and I would not wear it out on the right person so I don't really worry about it. It is kind of a twist of the old adage about Mommy being happy; in my case if Mommy is happy Daddy is going to be REALLY happy once the deal is done. lol I might not be able to do it three times a day but believe me the "once and well done" will put a twinkle in the old mans eye. lol |
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My friend married to a woman who was alone for 20 years. The relationship is a disaster. She told him she is stuck in her old ways and will not change. People with that type of mentality are very lazy. A relationship should be about both individuals adjusting their lives to make each other happy. Two primary reasons why people marry are for happiness and a better life.
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i'm disabled...
own my place... live a very frugal lifestyle... have three kids that spend very little time out here in the sticks because life is much faster at moms place... my "family" is on the east coast, i'm on the left coast... should tell you how i and my family relate... i have nothing but time going for me right now... tic toc |
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You are so selfish.... you never make time for me....lol.. has being alone on your own all these years made you into a selfish person.. you have become so used to doing what you want when you want to.. that now when you get into a relationship.. you have forgotten how to share your time.. do you think you are selfish.. .. when it comes to making time for your new partner I have spent more time single than I have in relationships in doing that I believe I have found the balance that I give to my Guy the best I have to give, as he does me. Yet I believe it is vital that each person takes time for themselves and the things they love for themselves. In my experience when people met, get into a relationship and then spend all the "free time with the other person they can get lost and then when that happens something vital is lost. Everything is a balance. I could live with someone and still want them and myself to take that time for ourselves. |
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Neither of us is selfish with our time, but we both do like our own time even when we are sharing the same space. It is a question of finding an acceptable balance.
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