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Topic: on first date...
neonchaos's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:25 PM
guy pays or equal pay? I like to pay cause I feel I have to.

thoughts?

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:31 PM
Maybe I'm old fashion but the guy asks me out and he pays.

wouldee's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:32 PM
evrybody pays in the endlaugh

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:33 PM
OH Sooo true Wouldee

neonchaos's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:34 PM
I maybe 30 but I have an old soul so yeah I am with you AllsmilesinTulsa.

btw you cute :)

neonchaos's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:34 PM
I maybe 30 but I have an old soul so yeah I am with you AllsmilesinTulsa.

btw you cute :)

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:34 PM
I always pay not because I'm against both flipping the bill but I always feel like it's my job to pay. Not sure if that's normal or if maybe I'm a mental patient. Possibly both.

neonchaos's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:37 PM
sincereman you took the words out of my mouth, cause you look like a mental patient




laugh kidding of course

andreajayne's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:38 PM
I always antisipate paying for my share, but rarely have...

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:39 PM
You're a normal mental patient Sincere but we loves yabigsmile

Personally I think its something that should be discussed before even going on the date, some women feel more comfortable if they pay half, some feel that a man should pay...me eh I'll pay my own way

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:40 PM
The drooling gave it away didn't it? damn it!:tongue:

looking4u52's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:42 PM
Seems like the guy is expected to pay. It's part of the men can't win scenario. It's probably best to just meet for a drink or coffee for the first meeting. That way you can decide if you want to go all out for the real first date. Us guys need to be careful because there are serial daters out there looking for a free ride.

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Fri 10/19/07 04:43 PM
Yes it was totally the drooling that gave it away..not those odd tics at alllaugh

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:44 PM
My rule of thumb is the date has to last at least as long as it takes me to get ready. And at my age, that can be a couple of hours!!

Dragoness's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:47 PM
whoever asks paysglasses

cheshire's photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:48 PM
I usually pay. Once the relationship progresses then I let her pay if shes willing.

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 04:58 PM
I seem to be paying more and more on dates...

MicheleNC's photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:02 PM
Ahhh, such a touchy subject nowadays.

If I am asked out, I hope that my check is covered. I do offer to pay my share or at least leave a tip (if warranted). I do believe in fair play. I will take the check if the person has taken me out and paid the previous time.

I am a firm believer that it all comes out in the wash.

And, Sincere is a mental patient. Why won't you share the good meds the docs give you with me?

no photo
Fri 10/19/07 05:03 PM
Because the evil voices told me to eat them all!!!noway

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Fri 10/19/07 05:07 PM
No wonder its been qiuet here all day, the evil voices are talking to you today!indifferent

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