Have you had people contact you and say, they love your profile and interested in you. Then you signed up on an instant messy and somewhere in the conversation they ask, “Tell me about yourself or tell me what you are looking for.”? Now what do they really want to know when all of that I put it in my profile. It’s a turnoff and I loose interest in that person right there.

So do people really read your profile or they see a pretty white flower and they contact ya just to waste your time? lol

This is when I did have a write up in my profile,….NOW, all I have on my profile is a cheeky line. I let those who view my profile to take a guess…lol

just for the hell of it sin I'm going to read the cheeky line

maybe they want every little detail of what you do,it's a good coversation starter

98.9999999999% will have no idea what a knuckle sanga is...

can't get any cheekier then that I love it!!!!

I think the cheeky line might be a good thing.......that way your not repeating yourself.......now I have to look at the cheeky line............

But the details are in the profile too...i am not saying I have now but when I did....I think, maybe some are just lazy to read and they prefer you tell them word by word. I get sick of repeating myself. the write up is therefor that purpose but if a potential date ask you to expand on what you have in the profile fair-enough.

Do ya ever get ones that want "sex" talk in the first three sentenses? Why don't men know thats a huge turn off?

Thats a good one Jess, haha if they ask me what's a knuckle sanga thats a good convo starter.

ok Im curious is a knuckle sanga something like a knuckle sandwich........

Like I have nothing better to do than tell them what I want to do to them in the sak!

Yes mry....and I tell 'em to buggeroff! lmao

Don't get me wrong sex is good but when one thinks just because I love sex then I am a target for sex talk then will get a surprise and no not a nice one too. I will tell them to f off and block them haha

exactly mry

Knuckle = fist

sanga is an ausssie term for sandwich lol

sorry its just me warp sense of humour with an aussie twist ha

wooohooo I was right...........I love it

what's worse and I have had this happen to me....you are messaging with them, if they have a web cam and the next thing you see is a d*ck on the screen in all it's glory!!!!!

every im i've ever had after the 3rd response jumpt right to...i know this is a shocker, but ...SEX...ugh...don't get me wrong love sex...with a real person...

I agree, Jtevans. One can never put every last detail in a profile, if someone wants to know more then tell them!

And boo to anyone who only wants to talk sex in the first encounter. How ungentlemanly.

Cat, I had that happen too. Like we don't already know what a D*** looks like!