what happened to the guys that actually wanted to get to know you not just jump in your bed

we're everywhere and all around...just a little invisible to the naked eye. We don't stand out and shout it out!!!

They are all "ready to retire" babybloomers. That generation has passed and let's not be so nostalgic about it. Remember many of them are retiring in their first marriage!

well why not that would be very helpful

well i am a gentlemen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I agree with wouldee. Even as a young pup, I was raised by my grandma her sisters so I act more mature than most people my age. Kinda sucks though because it makes it hard to find anybody my age. All they want is sex and partying. Puts me aside from everybody else.

Well on the internet, there are more guys wanting some I believe hahahah.

But it's just how things are going today in general. I don't see it improving much. Just the other day someone acted like I was crazy to think I should wait a week or so at least before trying to go after another girl when I just broke up with my last one....

well some ppl just dont get over things that easy i guess but i agree you should at least way a day or 2

Depends on the emotional investment - the greater it was, the longer you're gonna feel like you should wait.

and sometimes after we get to know you we want to run away!! get a grip on life. if you or i were perfect we would still be with our first mate, because no one in their right mind would leave mr. or mrs. perfect. some of us carry a lot of baggage that make others run away, but you can not see it!!

Hey sweetheart, we still here, just need to ask, the main problem is that you need to look into the Old School, if you know what I mean? I'm 56 and I still like walking with my girl holding hands, not like I've seen couples holding their"Buttocks" My daughter says I'm Old because I don't like wearing Jeans. I like my "Press Slacks". I l feel and looks better.If you want to learn more about me, don't hesitate to drop a line I'll be very happy to reply. we can share some Emails, be Pen/Pals, whatever you want. In my world womens, still Ladies,i open the car doors,carry your groceries,and let you walk in the inside when we walk along (holding hands). I'll be waiting for your note.

You're young sweetheart. Just follow your smile. You may not get "all that" these days, but if you are smiling, why worry?

There are a lot of nice young men out there, you just have to train them

ditto datboi.

mumovtoo,
sadly, the my generation and the one before me (gen X?) are chock-full-of-scum losers that just want to etch the bedpost.

just look at mens mags; they talk about crap like
"ohh I dont want a GF just right now because *insert BS*"

which is basically translated to

"I wanna sleep with as many women as possible before settling down."

hooray for STI's!

I can tell you what happened to them. They stopped acting like that because they always lost out to they guys that were the assholes. They saw that 9 times out of 10 it was the jerk that got the date so they decided to change their tune to up their odds.

gee whiz, beev....what's that say about the ladies? That they're just along for the ride?

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I killed them all.

I did this to increase my competitive biological advantage in terms of reproductive fitness. It was a perfectly natural thing to do.

i'm a nice guy and don't want to get in bed with a girl right away.. so i guess u just dont seem em

who doesn't believe nice guys finish last. I believe we do. the jerks and jocks get all the ladies and disrespect them and treat them like crap and when we nice guys get a chance with them they are to hurt and won't give us their all. So we still end up with the bad end of the deal.