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Topic: what is your opinion ...
IgorFrankensteen's photo
Fri 04/08/16 04:41 PM
Strictly speaking, as an American, you have the "right" to ask anything you want to ask.

It's common for people to use "you have no right" or "I have a right" as a figure of speech, but it's usually just egotistical posturing.

But yes, you have a right to ask whatever you like. However, you do not have a right to either get an answer, nor should you anticipate a polite response.

Here's a simple exercise for all such questions:

Think about what it really means to be EQUAL. No really. Think about it from both sides. In this case, think about the right to knowledge, and compare it to the equal right to privacy.

Keep thinking until you realize that they cancel each other out perfectly, due to equality.

mysticalview21's photo
Fri 04/08/16 04:45 PM
Edited by mysticalview21 on Fri 04/08/16 04:49 PM

Strictly speaking, as an American, you have the "right" to ask anything you want to ask.

It's common for people to use "you have no right" or "I have a right" as a figure of speech, but it's usually just egotistical posturing.

But yes, you have a right to ask whatever you like. However, you do not have a right to either get an answer, nor should you anticipate a polite response.

Here's a simple exercise for all such questions:

Think about what it really means to be EQUAL. No really. Think about it from both sides. In this case, think about the right to knowledge, and compare it to the equal right to privacy.

Keep thinking until you realize that they cancel each other out perfectly, due to equality.





this is true ->But yes, you have a right to ask whatever you like. However, you do not have a right to either get an answer, nor should you anticipate a polite response.


but what did I do hit a nerve ... if I do not get ... a polite response....

no photo
Fri 04/08/16 06:50 PM
If I was on a first date with a man and he asked me about all my sexual relationships? I would not answer and there is no second date.

msharmony's photo
Fri 04/08/16 06:58 PM
I would find it rude and intrusive and presumptious to dig into someones sexual history on the first date

once there is time to know and agree the relationship is going to move to that level,,,is a much better time to have those discussions

peggy122's photo
Fri 04/08/16 06:58 PM

The best answer is: I hope you are the last...


Unless that answer is said with a charming giggle, I would think it sounded quite creepy and clingy on a first date

TMommy's photo
Sat 04/09/16 05:32 AM
commonly held belief that at least in America

men overestimate that number and women underestimate


better to ask something like

how many times they have been married

or do they have children

or are you just getting out of a relationship

37ko's photo
Sat 04/09/16 07:33 AM
sure!! go ahead ask that on a first date...do not be surprised when she cracks ur skull or u never see or hear from her again...why don't u ask why her butts so big or if she has a younger hotter sister while ur at it...she'll love it!!

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