Topic: Sex and friendship
nettyblue2016's photo
Mon 04/18/16 04:30 PM

Is it really right to have sex with your close friend


Depends on what kind of close friend you got. Is it a buddy or gal pal you been hanging with for a while? I say no to this one..could ruin a great friendship.

Or is it a new close relationshippy kind of friend that you want to move forward with? I say Yes if you both are ready and comfortable with one another. But you have to have the physical attraction and chemistry for sure.


Beachfarmer's photo
Mon 04/18/16 04:41 PM
A good friend who used to be here would say, "Love is friendship on fire!"

I know it's cliche and somewhat of a platitude...but if done right....it's the most passionate, magical, connecting, spiritual, fulfilling sex there is.

In this case asking if sex ruins friendships is like asking if chocolate sprinkles ruins ice cream.

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Mon 04/18/16 04:53 PM
If you're both happy with it, it doesn't matter really I spose.
But I have had one good friendship ruined by it. And another almost. We were very close friends. We had that soulmate kind of feeling. We both realized at the same time it didn't really feel right and that having sex would ruin our friendship, and our friendship was way too precious to both of us. So we adjusted our clothes, lol, and never spoke of it again.
Sometimes having sex is not the best thing to do with a friend.

defrimcena's photo
Mon 04/18/16 08:55 PM
ok sounds nice

Dominic58's photo
Mon 04/18/16 09:18 PM

Is it really right to have sex with your close friend


I would rather she be a friend before I have sex with her. The Alternative is only having sex with strangers. NO thanks. If I don't have feelings for her (other than lust), it would feel too shallow and unfulfilling for me.

I know this isn't the question the OP set out. offtopic

4dhaval's photo
Tue 04/19/16 01:53 AM
May b its ryt ,..., to do sex wid ur friend .. I think sex is one typ of need of human so .. If there is no problem in froendship relationship thn they cn do everything together

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Wed 04/20/16 12:39 PM
Sex

sparkyae5's photo
Thu 04/21/16 07:42 AM


Is it really right to have sex with your close friend


NO noway
Once there is sex or romance they are no longer your friend.

If friendship turns to dating exclusively, imo, those are the best relationships.


AMEN .....smile2 smile2

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Thu 04/21/16 07:15 PM



Is it really right to have sex with your close friend


NO noway
Once there is sex or romance they are no longer your friend.

If friendship turns to dating exclusively, imo, those are the best relationships.


AMEN .....smile2 smile2



Hhhaaa..rofl Kids

malacaiZ's photo
Fri 04/22/16 04:29 AM
I Agree with Sassy, sex changes everything you get to look at each other differently,,,,,,

Aringo's photo
Sun 04/24/16 01:46 AM
It depends on the feeling they have for each other cuz there are friends amongst friends

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Tue 04/26/16 09:49 AM
Hi dear

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Tue 04/26/16 01:14 PM
Hiii

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Wed 04/27/16 10:33 AM
I did once have sex with a male friend. Only because we mutually agreed that we wouldn't have sex with anyone else, because we admitted we both had feelings for each other. We mentioned that it is what it is. We didn't feel a need to define it. We wanted each other, and agreed that if I ever became pregnant, we would keep the baby, because me and him were besotted with each other.

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Thu 04/28/16 03:01 AM
only should sex when really love and need faithful

kathberali's photo
Thu 04/28/16 06:22 AM
Yes, if both of us have consensus.

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Thu 04/28/16 11:50 AM
Yaa ya want

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Thu 04/28/16 11:51 AM
Hii

Robxbox73's photo
Thu 04/28/16 12:17 PM
Watch when Harry met Sally. Good movie about that!

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Mon 05/02/16 02:28 PM
Lol FUBU?