In your hustles and struggles they would say you don't care or that you're not serious.
And when you decide to please them, they will leave you for a better man tomorrow saying you're not man enough, instead of finding some thing to do you spent all your time on her.
Will a lady still love a man even if he told her he has neither gold nor diamond to offer?

they follow there script, so it has to be yes......

Both of the men I fell deeply in love with had a lot of ambition , but neither of them had money.

It is not hard to discern a materialistic woman or man Jacksonne. The focus of their conversations and the way they conduct their lives always indicate what they place value on.

It is also not hard once you spot a materialistic woman, to run in the opposite direction

Maybe.
But it might not be the one you want.

I mean I saw an episode of COPS where a homeless couple, seemingly in love, were kicked out of the back of a moving van they were squatting in for shelter.
They were not attractive people.
But...didn't seem to matter that they were both penniless and had to break into the back of a moving van for shelter.

So, it seems a lady will still love a man even if he told her he has neither gold nor diamond to offer, but he better not be all that picky if he doesn't want to be alone.

Brother your fishing in the wrong pond. Move on from there and find like minded people. Good like Jacksonne!

Would you be comfortable with a women who ALREADY has what she needs and don't need you for nothing (literally). She may have more money than you, own her own, etc. Would you be intimidated by her? There are materialistic women who can support their own external needs. Yet they may be viewed as materialistic .

If a women's very materialistic she's already found her love(stuff) and won't have anything left to love you with...so you're better off finding someone who has something to give you, rather than someone who is looking to get something from you.