Oh man, Mingle, what a world... Why is there porn? I gotta go with Rooster on this one. Some guys and gals, don't have an off switch. Like the lab rat they will go till they stroke out... pardon the pun. In marriage some women, not all, do use sex as a weapon. Denying closeness is one of the main discussions in divorce recovery groups. I know I've gone to my fairs share back in the day.

By the way, you want hanky panky go to one of those! Holly Hell! Talk about hot to trot! Whew! We're was i? Oh yes,, denial of services. We had one gal she divorced because she wasn't getting enough. When asked how often the married couple were partaking, she said 10-15 times a week. I remember all the guys dropped their donuts or coughed! Ahem,,, what should it have been at?
Oh at least 30 - 40 times a week. I remember me and a buddy left the meeting right there went to a bar and drank a toast to the "Maneater".

sexual disfunction MAY be a red flag that there are problems in the relationship

I say may because believe it or not there are couples that love and care for each other but for various reasons are not sexually active



some couples may use sex as a power play


if a woman is withholding in a relationship

if asked? I'll bet she has her reasons
and I doubt if it's because he forgot to take out the garbage


it is not new news that women hold the cards on how much and how often in a monogamous relationship

not how it should be in a healthy one