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Topic: Date-able or not?
Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:43 PM
Ok, here's a scenario.....date-able or not???

A young person in mid 20's, just starting out life again. Just got a job, getting ready to start college. But, here's the part that makes ya think......he/she lives with his/her parents right now, and helping them in their of sickness and need....does that fact that he/she is living with the parents make them less desirable for dating?

EmmyJade3's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:45 PM
If someone cares about something like that they aren't worth your time, that's how I feel about it.

doesnt_play_well's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:45 PM
no i think the fact that they are helping there parents makes them seem more responsible and caring....and also i think he or she deserves a chance for all of there good deeds

dragonyosh's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:45 PM
well how sick is the parent and how old is he.she???

dhutch9's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:46 PM
Doesn't matter WHERE you live,it's HOW you live.

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Mon 11/05/07 08:47 PM
look at me .... do I look choosey

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Mon 11/05/07 08:47 PM
I dont think that would make them less desirable......I would commend anyone who would do that for their parents. Its a hard job.

Now if you want to do a few overnighters at the other person's house then that may be the only option.

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:48 PM
the young person is about 24 and the parents are in BAD shape. one has TIAs everyday and the other's diabetic condition is literally killing them

BrooklynDeluxe's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:50 PM
If a woman cannot accept you it simply means she's not for you and you're not for her. Never try convince/rationalize her. It applies to most situations, including yours.
there is nothing wrong with living with parents (unless you are over 30 ;-)

txsweet's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:51 PM
Take them as they are or dont take them at all...If they are to worried about that then maybe they are not the right person for you...Family first...

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Mon 11/05/07 08:52 PM
i would say date able and a very considerate person a very nice quality you just keep doing what youre doing youll find the right person who will appreciate your attributes ..glasses

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Mon 11/05/07 08:54 PM
Sounds like the parents are ready for a nursing home.....are they your grandparents?

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Mon 11/05/07 08:55 PM
Or maybe assisted living......check it out in your area. There are places where there are nurses 24/7.flowerforyou

doesnt_play_well's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:56 PM
looks like u'd know by ur pic lol

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Mon 11/05/07 08:59 PM
lol I know everything!!!!:wink: laugh laugh

Just call me Old Wize Azzzzzzzzzz!!!drinker

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 11/05/07 08:59 PM
as far as sending them to a nursing home or assisted living facility, OUT OF THE QUESTION. biological mom in a place like that and those places are........i'm just not gonna go there right lol. they happen to be my dad and stepmother

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Mon 11/05/07 09:02 PM
How old are your parents??? Thats a lot to take on by yourself...and not all places are the same.

Amberdee29045's photo
Mon 11/05/07 09:04 PM
dad's 57 and stepmom's in her 60s. and my dad would KILL me with his bare hands if i tried to send to a place like that

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Mon 11/05/07 09:09 PM
well they have to get someone in to help them manage......because it is hard on you, and you will burn out....

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Mon 11/05/07 09:22 PM
sounds like a person with compassion
a very admirable quality

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