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      Ok, here's a scenario.....date-able or not???
 A young person in mid 20's, just starting out life again. Just got a job, getting ready to start college. But, here's the part that makes ya think......he/she lives with his/her parents right now, and helping them in their of sickness and need....does that fact that he/she is living with the parents make them less desirable for dating? | |
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      If someone cares about something like that they aren't worth your time, that's how I feel about it.
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      no i think the fact that they are helping there parents makes them seem more responsible and caring....and also i think he or she deserves a chance for all of there good deeds
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      well how sick is the parent and how old is he.she???
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      Doesn't matter WHERE you live,it's HOW you live.
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      look at me .... do I look choosey
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      I dont think that would make them less desirable......I would commend anyone who would do that for their parents.  Its a hard job.
 Now if you want to do a few overnighters at the other person's house then that may be the only option. | |
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      the young person is about 24 and the parents are in BAD shape.  one has TIAs everyday and the other's diabetic condition is literally killing them
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      If a woman cannot accept you it simply means she's not for you and you're not for her. Never try convince/rationalize her. It applies to most situations, including yours.
 there is nothing wrong with living with parents (unless you are over 30 ;-) | |
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      Take them as they are or dont take them at all...If they are to worried about that then maybe they are not the right person for you...Family first...
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      i would say date able and a very considerate person a very nice quality you just keep doing what youre doing youll find the right person who will appreciate your attributes ..   | |
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      Sounds like the parents are ready for a nursing home.....are they your grandparents?
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      Or maybe assisted living......check it out in your area.  There are places where there are nurses 24/7.   | |
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      looks like u'd know by ur pic lol
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      lol I know everything!!!!       Just call me Old Wize Azzzzzzzzzz!!!   | |
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      as far as sending them to a nursing home or assisted living facility, OUT OF THE QUESTION.  biological mom in a place like that and those places are........i'm just not gonna go there right lol. they happen to be my dad and stepmother
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      How old are your parents??? Thats a lot to take on by yourself...and not all places are the same.
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      dad's 57 and stepmom's in her 60s.  and my dad would KILL me with his bare hands if i tried to send to a place like that
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      well they have to get someone in to help them manage......because it is hard on you, and you will burn out....
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      sounds like a person with compassion
 a very admirable quality | |
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