Okay so for the past 2 months or so since breaking up I see either my exgirlfreinds name (store clerks, online people, her name on a company truck???), her nickname several times (just happened here on this site tonight), the city she lives in pops up in odd places in front of me, special numbers or dates associated with her or her and I come up, she has a specialty job and that is popping up everywhere as well, lastly I see "her" burgandy camero pass by me on the road and I know it's not her.

Does anyone else have these strange constant reminders of the ex as though there is some cosmic destiny trying to keep us together???

She had way to many issues for me to handle and after near 3 years I'm done. No contact at all..... So why oh why is there these strange coincidental/constant reminders.

Signed,

Reflective

Maybe cause you are thinking too much!!!

But yeah, that has happened to me so I guess it's normal.

OR

we are insane

Sounds like a major addiction :)

quit drinking the juice from the pickle jar

its actually very normal

think about me instead just kidding sorry

just dont think about her as much and you wont notice these things...yea it happened to me also

safe to say I've never had this problem.

but I am just that cool.

hi 5 coco!!!!! all these little reminders will fade away. yeah start thinking of coco

Well I'll tell ya the responses made me laugh and for those that it's happened at least I'm not the only one.

Thanks Coco< Happy to think aboutcha.

Gotta put the pickle jar away now

J

you know what sucks when the person u want to stop thinking about is named after a month.

hang in there man

I have two reminders of two of my exes=my kids.

remember the fun and nuke the burdens!!!!

Guess I'll have to turn on the cool..like aj

Yeah well there was something cool each month that I related to with this one sooooo.... But I hear ya!

Quad drinkin'

wow thats a hard one I donthave a answer for ya but im wishing you well...Goodluck to ya sweetie

I live 3 minutes from the x-wife, and dont see her at all unless im pickin my kids up. !

Well I'll say this...... didn't expect it but I went from down to much much better with all the comments be it that they made me laugh and also validated that I am insane. :)

Cheers to ya all

Much appreciation,

J

My son has my ex's name and I do think of him as well, when I do speak to my son...why wouldn't I think of my ex?

He's a great person...somewhere out there...

Oh SO normal!

I dont see reminders of my ex-husband, I see the ex-boyfriend reminders everywhere. Commercials, trucks, telephone pole climbers..even my darn phone bill comes from his employer and he lives in another state!

*mumbling something about mass communication company tech/repair person*

ARGH!