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Topic: Are good people not a good partner??
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Sun 08/21/16 12:33 AM

by exp. generally, women wants an alpha. they may settle for someone less but someone that has qualities of an alpha at least. a guy that can seize the moment. A capable guy. if a girl settles with you and you're a goodie too shoe and she might cheat on you.
i could say a balance of both evil and good. and knowing your girl is the most and basic essentials

At the end good wins over evil but before that evil always overpowers the good. Beating or abusing a woman is always the evil side of the person but bdsm is not? I feel everyone has seen "forrest gump", at last jenny came to him only

yeah after she was Dogs Out by every guy she could find, after that only then did she come crawling on her hands and knees to him. that's how I interpreted it.

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Sun 08/21/16 08:24 AM


by exp. generally, women wants an alpha. they may settle for someone less but someone that has qualities of an alpha at least. a guy that can seize the moment. A capable guy. if a girl settles with you and you're a goodie too shoe and she might cheat on you.
i could say a balance of both evil and good. and knowing your girl is the most and basic essentials

At the end good wins over evil but before that evil always overpowers the good. Beating or abusing a woman is always the evil side of the person but bdsm is not? I feel everyone has seen "forrest gump", at last jenny came to him only

yeah after she was Dogs Out by every guy she could find, after that only then did she come crawling on her hands and knees to him. that's how I interpreted it.

True..that's what I meant, there was such a good chemistry and the guy is a gem & in love with her but still because of some flaws she never wanted to be with him or be happy.

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Sun 08/21/16 11:14 AM

Are good people not a good partner?


I have heard this so many times in movies and real "You are a good person but I am not interested in this or a relationship". Does being good means you are not a good partner and gals only like bad or abusive guys?


Definitely not, whether you are a good person or a bad person, hearing someone tell you , you are a good person but I am not interested , it's also like saying I love you but it has nothing to do with you, simply means that he or she is not into you and that she loves someone or something more than you or could be that you are just not compatible with each other and he or she does not find what she's looking for in you.

A bad guy doesn't mean he doesn't have any positive qualities in him. All of us have the good and evil sides in us. A woman could love a bad guy maybe because she saw something good in him , will all his imperfections one good side of him outshines everything, that is love and acceptance.

A good guy may have many good attributes but a girl may not find something that could hit her heart to the core.

It is our heart that feels and chooses who we are going to love regardless of being good or bad guy , we all possess the dark and light side in us anyway.

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Sun 08/21/16 01:15 PM
Yeah they make terrible partners in crime:wink:

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Sun 08/21/16 01:50 PM
I agree that people search for incompatibilities and go for break ups. The best example as I stated was the movie "Forrest Gump" and there are many similar movies where even if the person is good and they know he/she will keep them happy forever but still break the relationship because of some flaws. As if happiness is not enough but they want the one but at last feel sorry or come back to the same person stupid right?? laugh bigsmile

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