Topic: Is it just me?
KRS737's photo
Thu 10/13/16 03:09 AM
Hey there everyone!
Ok now I've been trying to find pretty much any females that are in my area to just get a response to the messages I send to them.
I'm not being rude,creepy,rapey,or anything that you obviously don't want to come across as. Now I am nothing less than kind,friendly
Respectful and I JUST CANNOT GET A RESPONSE FROM ANYONE! I am really starting to feel like I have something wrong with me,effecting my self-esteem. I'm just mainly looking for a girl to be friends with mainly and if anything comes from that friendship then that's great! I feel doomed!

NotPay4Play's photo
Thu 10/13/16 03:30 AM
Nah it's not just you. I usually go by when they were last on site. I generally go off the theory of usually females find what they are looking for or interested inn in the first week on a site. And those that have been off line for over a month most likely means that they have found something and either forgot to deactivate their account or just moved on. Some are all so possibly scanners that just moved on to another screen name / face.

But I have realised activity in the forums have a better chance of a live person on the other end.

I wish you the best of luck here.

mariaclaracruz23's photo
Thu 10/13/16 05:11 AM
Maybe you should try to walk in the neighborhood and meet people especially girls, personally. :grin:
If it doesn't work, then try moving in a different area. You just have to believe that there is someone out there who will make you become a better person :blush::blush::blush:

Norazrin's photo
Thu 10/13/16 03:21 PM
Waiting and searching for luck here

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Thu 10/13/16 03:49 PM
Edited by Integrityis1st on Thu 10/13/16 03:51 PM
OMG! frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

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Thu 10/13/16 03:55 PM
It all starts with you! HELLO and good luck

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Thu 10/13/16 04:02 PM
I truly see what's going on in the world today and it helps reinforce what I see out in the local community also.


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Thu 10/13/16 04:10 PM
Putting down unemployed as a profession was a shot in your own foot.

Just trying to make light of it,mybe work on yourself dig deep.

Hope this helps. Good luck.

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Thu 10/13/16 04:16 PM
You don't make someone a better person. You have to want to be a better person and work hard on it.

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Thu 10/13/16 04:31 PM
You haven't been on here a week. Just relax, give it some time and be yourself.

Goddezz_Eyezz's photo
Mon 10/17/16 12:02 PM
I agree its still early give it time... Personally I would think something's wrong with the ladies if they don't see how sexy u are looking with that guitar and ur obviously an animal lover... Icing on the cake:heart_eyes:..... good luck honey!

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Tue 10/18/16 04:00 PM

Hey there everyone!
Ok now I've been trying to find pretty much any females that are in my area to just get a response to the messages I send to them.
I'm not being rude,creepy,rapey,or anything that you obviously don't want to come across as. Now I am nothing less than kind,friendly
Respectful and I JUST CANNOT GET A RESPONSE FROM ANYONE! I am really starting to feel like I have something wrong with me,effecting my self-esteem. I'm just mainly looking for a girl to be friends with mainly and if anything comes from that friendship then that's great! I feel doomed!


Your profile says you are looking for a activity partner, which usually means you are looking to get laid... that is usually the " activity"

Most woman are not going to respond to that.

You might want to consider dropping that.

no1phD's photo
Wed 10/19/16 05:46 PM
Ummm.. have you smelled your feet lately... just saying...lol...jk.. give it a year or two I'm sure you'll find someone... Rome wasn't built in a day..
But oddly enough God created planet Earth in a day..hmmm.. go figure..lol

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Wed 10/19/16 06:54 PM
it could also be like the... its not you, its me ...kinda excuse too :thinking:

inni_dreamz's photo
Thu 10/20/16 02:56 PM

Nah it's not just you. I usually go by when they were last on site. I generally go off the theory of usually females find what they are looking for or interested inn in the first week on a site. And those that have been off line for over a month most likely means that they have found something and either forgot to deactivate their account or just moved on. Some are all so possibly scanners that just moved on to another screen name / face.

But I have realised activity in the forums have a better chance of a live person on the other end.

I wish you the best of luck here.




How can you tell the last time someone was online?



To the young man who created this thread --- Good luck! :) Patience shades

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Thu 10/20/16 03:12 PM
When viewing a profile, I think next to the photo it will say, last seen two days ago, within the last day, or something like that. Sometimes it says online now in green.