Topic: Decisions
mayanocute's photo
Sat 11/05/16 09:46 AM
It's weird to post it here but...

I'm going through a tough decision right now about my life. Because whatever my desicion will be someone will be sad.. Here's the thing, if I choose to leave my father ( which is sick and needed care) he will be sad but he always wanted me to go look for my future. And if I cancelled my engagement with my boyfriend he will be sad for sure. I love my boyfriend but I'm not ready yet to leave my papa.

RustyKitty's photo
Sat 11/05/16 10:51 AM
family first..there's lots of fish in the sea, but you only have one dad..

sybariticguy's photo
Sat 11/05/16 10:51 AM
Advice of this importance and your inability to address, strongly suggests the need for a counselor who can help you clarify and make the best decisions. Given the specificity of your circumstances which you have not elaborated sufficiently to help anyone make an informed opinion as to what is best...

Billy's photo
Sat 11/05/16 01:56 PM
Your dad would only want you to be happy. I hope I helped you. Go with your Boy friend if he is really serious about you.

Billy's photo
Sat 11/05/16 02:00 PM
Go and get married and then come back and take care of your father.

Billy's photo
Sat 11/05/16 02:04 PM
or talk to your boy friend and put the marriage off for a while and if he doesn't understand then he's not worth marring

msharmony's photo
Sat 11/05/16 02:09 PM
why does one have to cancel an engagement to take care of family?

I dont understand the dilemma....

sparkyae5's photo
Sun 11/06/16 06:40 AM

family first..there's lots of fish in the sea, but you only have one dad..


I AGREE. WHY CAN'T YOU BOTH BE THERE FOR YOUR DAD..?...ASK YOUR BOY FRIEND. YOU

COULD SEE A SIDE OF HIM YOU HAVE NOT SEEN UP TO NOW.......I HAVE ROOM IN MY

HEART FOR LOTS OF PEOPLE AND I BELIEVE MOST OTHER PEOPLE DO ALSO''''''

salsaforlove's photo
Mon 11/07/16 02:59 AM
Then wait until your dad passes away into a better life. This way you can be sure nothing will come against any decision you take.