Hello,

I'm relatively new here and just feel really sad, I want to meet someone nice, who will care about and eventually love me for myself. I left an abusive marriage after 20 years.....it's been 9 months, and I am suffering the "aftershock" of it all. I know meeting another man will not make it all better, but I do want to date and get to know someone. Sometimes I despair of ever meeting my soul mate.

I don't really know why I'm posting this here; guess I just feel especially lonely this morning.

TAKE I REAL SLOW...IF YOU HAVE NOT LEARNED ABOUT YOUR PART IN THE PAST

RELATIONSHIP FOR YOUR OWN GOOD SLOW DOWN EVEN MORE.....ATTRACTION IS NOT A

CONSCIOUS CHOICE ALL THOUGH WE WOULD LIKE TO THINK SO....BEHIND THE FAILED

RELATIONSHIPS ARE BELIEFS LIKE ''NOT DESERVING LOVE'' ''PEOPLE I LOVE WILL

LEAVE ME'' ETC..RELATIONSHIPS ARE NEVER ONE HANDED WE ALL PLAY A PART...YOU CAN

NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT ANYONE BUT YOURSELF...LEARN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN ABOUT

YOURSELF LIKE,, WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE FEELINGS???...WHAT BELIEFS DO I HAVE THAT

WILL SABOTAGE ME GETTING MY NEEDS MET ..????..GOOD LUCK,I HOPE YOU FIND THE LOVE

YOU WANT....