Topic: Need guys help???
Kninety's photo
Mon 11/14/16 08:33 PM
My ex reaching out with me once a while after break up? He kinda check in if I'm doing ok? Does any message there?

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 11/14/16 08:47 PM
Depends; how was the break-up? Friendly? Could just want to stay in touch in the hope that things may change.

How was the sex? Could just be looking to get back "in touch".

r8dr76's photo
Mon 11/14/16 08:49 PM
how soon after break up, how often, and what does he actually do to check up on you

Kninety's photo
Mon 11/14/16 09:23 PM
3 weeks after break up. I'm the only his best friend that he has after his brother pass away. I'm the only person that there for him when he needs it. Now then seem thing to be better for him and now only call and asked how am I doing? Sometime I feel he just lean me on.

motowndowntown's photo
Mon 11/14/16 09:38 PM
Sounds like a needy person and you are filling a need. Is that what you want out of a relationship?

Or he could just be trying to get some pity sex.

no photo
Mon 11/14/16 10:36 PM
You will have to read more of his actions to gain a good reading of any message he is sending

He could be assuring himself you are ok, out of concern for you
He could be assuring himself you are still available as a backup out of concern for himself.

That is just two possibilities of many.

What message are you sending him?