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Topic: love and sex
smitharry11108's photo
Mon 11/21/16 08:09 PM
what is love, and what is sex, what Is the difference between the two line, but for me all I want is love, because sex comes after love all I want is seriously relationship

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Mon 11/21/16 08:21 PM
sometimes there can be sex w/o love or vice versa love w/o sex....maybe better to call it making love...last :angel:

gankyboy's photo
Mon 11/21/16 09:47 PM
Hi

Rooster35's photo
Mon 11/21/16 09:57 PM

what is love, and what is sex, what Is the difference between the two line, but for me all I want is love, because sex comes after love all I want is seriously relationship


Now that you got the preliminary platitudes out of the way, was there something else you needed to get off your chest? laugh

hesbonkahoya's photo
Mon 11/21/16 10:16 PM
what is love, and what is sex, what Is the difference between the two line, but for me all I want is love, because sex comes after love all I want is seriously relationship

love is like to mix up two collar to get one collar......

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Mon 11/21/16 10:22 PM
like making up a new collarbone? think

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Tue 11/22/16 05:49 AM
Hello peoples concerning love nd sex is part of life isn't it?

sparkyae5's photo
Tue 11/22/16 07:07 AM
Edited by sparkyae5 on Tue 11/22/16 07:11 AM

Hello peoples concerning love and sex is part of life isn't it?
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NOT FOR PEOPLE WITH INJUNCTIONS...........ITS A ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR LEARNED IN

CHILDHOOD AND STILL USED AS AN ADULT.......INJUNCTIONS SABOTAGE US FROM GETTING

OUR NEEDS MET AND REINFORCE OUR FAVORITE FEELINGS......

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/22/16 10:37 AM
The best relationships contain both.

Imtiaz645's photo
Tue 11/22/16 12:50 PM
Sex is worth will always look like love

soufiehere's photo
Tue 11/22/16 01:44 PM

The best relationships contain both.

Well I LUV YOU but..

bryon98's photo
Tue 11/22/16 01:53 PM
Hi

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/22/16 04:03 PM


The best relationships contain both.

Well I LUV YOU but..


laugh

:heart:Posse:heart:

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Sun 11/27/16 03:34 PM

what is love, and what is sex, what Is the difference between the two line, but for me all I want is love, because sex comes after love all I want is seriously relationship

Yes your right

BigDinU's photo
Sun 11/27/16 03:49 PM
Well, sex can either exist independently, or as an element of love. Sex is definitely better when you're in love, because the passion is there. From discussions I've had with many women, I can vouch that sex with love, is much more intense, and with higher levels of pleasure.

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Sun 11/27/16 06:47 PM

Well, sex can either exist independently, or as an element of love. Sex is definitely better when you're in love, because the passion is there. From discussions I've had with many women, I can vouch that sex with love, is much more intense, and with higher levels of pleasure.

:thumbsup:

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Mon 11/28/16 08:05 AM
what is love

Pair bonding, emotional interconnected interdependence caused by hormonal reactions in an ideal social setting or position occurring over a period of time, motivated by the desire to mate and procreate.

and what is sex

Physical and emotional gratification through genital and erogenous zone manipulation leading to orgasm.

what Is the difference between the two line

You can't have "true" organic love without ongoing sex, the purpose of which is procreation, with pleasure and gratification being used to compel people to have sex in order to propagate.

You can have sex without love, desiring only the pleasure involved, choosing to work against the natural, organic development of interconnected emotional commitment.

So..the "difference between the two line" seems to be motives, goals, desires, identity, and ability, off the top of my head. I'm sure there's more.

all I want is love

Then want a family, and find someone that wants to build a family.
If you don't want that, if you don't want kids, then you have at most a few months of "true" organic love before you start naturally working against it as your body has been pushing you since at least puberty to go out and make more of you.

Then your best bet is a type of rationalized pseudo love based on social contracts and conditioning that will more often than not fail over time as the procreation "biological clock" starts ticking louder.

sex comes after love

It really doesn't.
The point of "loving" relationships is to keep people together long enough to keep the kids that pop out after sex alive long enough to run away from lions, and teach kids enough not be strangled as little a-holes by the other members of their community.

After that it's based on the neural pathways in the brain, having completely integrated them into your personality, fear of change, desire for routine, and ease of gratification.

2b_single's photo
Mon 11/28/16 08:45 AM
Seriously,
Sex itself is an action of desire.

Love is an emotion.

Yes that simple

mix the two and everything gets interesting or confusing

Thats a relationship

intimacy within love ( of any type) creates the emotional connection from endorphins produced within the brain " attachment theory "

That's how some people cannot have just sex without getting attached to the other
or vis versa
How some believe that a man and a woman can not have a friendship without one becoming emotionally attracted than the other.

Like a law of personal morals, it's a line you chose not to cross or even if you get the stir of feelings. it's your choice to voice.





ornaldo19's photo
Mon 11/28/16 08:55 AM
hi sweet

Nickk75's photo
Mon 11/28/16 09:31 AM
They walk hand to hand...

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