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in a "relationship" for some years now but haven't feel that my partner really loves me.didn't even bother to marry me even after having a kid.always making me feel less of myself.always saying he doesn't want to lose me but doesn't make me feel cared.I just want to feel "loved" I think I somehow deserve it after choosing him eventhough my parents never liked him.
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in a "relationship"... haven't feel that my partner really loves me .didn't even bother to marry me... making me feel less of myself...doesn't make me feel cared....choosing him...parents never liked him want to feel "loved" I think I somehow deserve it Why do you feel entitled to something solely due to bad choices? It's like you're saying "I'm 'employed,' fry'o'later at McDonald's, haven't felt my efforts mattered...never get a raise...still making minimum wage...manager hates me...I chose this job...parents thought I could do better. I just want to be CEO of Apple, I think I somehow deserve it." Other than that, your kid probably loves you. That's the purest you'll ever find. Take solace and comfort in that if you can. When you try and attract people under the belief you are entitled to something from them (I deserve to feel loved) all you are going to attract are people that are willing to manipulate you into feeling a false sense of it for short amounts of time for as long as they can get something they value more in return. |
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in a "relationship" for some years now but haven't feel that my partner really loves me.didn't even bother to marry me even after having a kid.always making me feel less of myself.always saying he doesn't want to lose me but doesn't make me feel cared.I just want to feel "loved" I think I somehow deserve it after choosing him eventhough my parents never liked him. If he married you solely because you had a kid together.. your life would be a hellhole. You are young, you have a child that loves you, this guy most likely is not going to just one day say lets get married.. and the world is fine from then on. I would move on with my life.. less the person. |
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in a "relationship" for some years now but haven't feel that my partner really loves me.didn't even bother to marry me even after having a kid.always making me feel less of myself.always saying he doesn't want to lose me but doesn't make me feel cared.I just want to feel "loved" I think I somehow deserve it after choosing him eventhough my parents never liked him. there is a lot in the word deserve ... you deserve better ... think of it that away ... |
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Edited by
mysticalview21
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Sun 01/15/17 01:10 PM
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Hmmm..sounds like the two of you need to sit down and have a heart to heart..with one another....tell him.what you need from him...
And if he is willing to give it to you...if not!..you have a hard decision to make.. Stay with him...are leave him.... But talk to him frist.. sometimes the other person is just not aware of how you feel or how they're treating you.. Mybe he needs something from you you're not giving him.?.. |
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Hmmm..sounds like the two of you need to sit down and have a heart to heart..with one another....tell him.what you need from him... And if he is willing to give it to you...if not!..you have a hard decision to make.. Stay with him...are leave him.... But talk to him frist.. sometimes the other person is just not aware of how you feel or how they're treating you.. Mybe he needs something from you you're not giving him.?.. I can not agree more, no "sugarcoating" it, this sounds more like separation if both do not get to an agreement. |
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