Okay, my Darling JSH'ers...help your girl out here.

My beautiful sister is getting married in January if all the details work out. I did not think I was in the wedding (her 2nd, his 3rd). However, yesterday she called me, asked me to be in the wedding, meet her at the bridal place and pick out my dress. I was floored, but cannot/would not say no to my big sis.

So...here we go with the questions. It is already assumed that if I am still with my latest beau, he will be my date. However, my little boy is escorting me down the aisle (SWEET!). Do I ask if my beau can bring his son? He and my boy get along great and there may be some younger cousins in attendance. Should I first check with the beau to see if he would want his boy to come? There is a religion issue. We are Jewish and my beau and his boy are Catholic. I don't think his boy has ever been to Jewish event.

Ideas? Anyone? I know the wedding will be the topic of conversation on Thursday. My beau is joining my family this year since neither of us have our sons this year. (POUT!)

And the dress is fabulous. I will be able to wear it again! Even though I will look like an old fart wearing the same dress as my 24 year old niece and my 17 year old niece to be.

Okay, enough babbling. Words of wisdom anyone?

Hugs, M

Ask your sister first. And if she says yes, your boyfriend and his son can come, by all means, bring them both! I am sure your boyfriend and his son will experience a beautiful wedding that is different than the traditional Catholic rite of marriage. A great learning experience for them!!

Ya I agree with Mb!!