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"Just what is Mutual Match?
Mutual Match is a simple and fun way to bring together Mingle2 members that are interested in one another. Here's how it works:

1. If you have not already, upload a photo to your account (you will not be allowed to use Mutual Match if you don't). Next, click the My Account tab and then the Your Mutual Matches link just to the right of where your main photo is.

2. Click the Find New Matches Now button. We'll show you profiles of members who match your search preferences, one at a time.

3. Peruse each member's profile as much (or as little) as you'd like. Then, click the Yes, No, or Maybe button where asked whether you're interested in him or her.

4. If you select "Yes" or "Maybe", we'll blindly show that person your profile the next time he or she looks for new matches through Mutual Match.

5. If the member also expresses interest in you, you have a Mutual Match! We will email both parties alerting you about your new match, and you will see a notification next to the Your Mutual Matches link on your home page.

6. At this point, you will be able to contact your new Mutual Match knowing that you're both interested in one another. With Mutual Match, you can review profiles quickly and easily, and only send messages to people you have a mutual connection with. How simple is that?"

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