For those of us who have nothing to do but aren't quite ready for bed.....How are all of you?

Really crappy.... The guy Im 'casually seeing' right now told me how much he likes to be around me and see me but cant handle a relationship right now and I really like the guy. It was a big shocker to me b/c I thought we were getting along great.

im so sorry to hear bear. i hope everything works out for you.

and josh, i am fine, how are you?

i've had women pull that on me.....say they really like me but they don't want a relationship....i can't stand that....it drives me insane..i feel for you...

slightly intoxicated....lol...

bearfan, wow I hear ya!! What the heck is wrong with guys. Want a piece of the cookie, but not the whole box! hehe. I'm going through basically the same thing, except I think this boy I'm talking to is just plain out confused and retarded

But anyway, I'm over it!

Whats up Josh, can't sleep either? My ass should be in bed right now, 6 am is going to come really early!! I'm such an insomniac, 1:13 and still wide awake

nice! thats always fun

holly...that hurt.....not all guys are like that......at least i'm not...... and no, i can't sleep

well, not always...sometimes you drink too much and people start tilting the room on you....

well, not always...sometimes you drink too much and people start tilting the room on you....


damn them! those people are so mean!

i know....i poke them with sticks

Josh, sorry, I'm slightly bitter

And don't worry, I'm not a manbasher yet. So I only think 90% of the male population is retarded

You're okay in my book so far. What time is it where you're at? I'm going to be a crabass tomorrow, feel sorry for my coworkers!! hehe

how funny, i just punch them in the face. jk

}}}}}sits in the middle of the floor and contimplates her naval.....{{{{{{{

Thanks guys... Im really hurt and upset but that's how it goes. He just wants to be friends right now but I dont know if I can be. We've had sex and Ive become attached some, thats why it hurts so much. He said it was nothing I did but I wonder some. What also hurt was that I found out he made out w/ an old friend of his this past wknd and he knew my views about 'guys who date multiple girls at once' and that led to his decision over the weekend. He felt guilty about making out w/ her when he thought of me and he claims he doesnt know what he wants. Also, he doesnt want to get into a relationship b/c he wants to avoid having to deal w/ the emotions and he tried to convince himself that we could become exclusive but couldnt make himself believe it. Yet we 'didnt start out that way' according to him. I mean, he made it sound like we started out as exclusive and then drew apart. And that makes me feel like a loser now. I know its not me but I cant help feeling that way. Oh well, there's more fish in the sea as they say. Why is it that when a girl finds a guy they like to date, the guy wants to become a friend, is already taken, or is gay? Not to mention, girls really cant handle no-strings attached sex. We were not built for that, and our emotions come into play every time.


As for me... Im bored and a night owl. My average bedtime is 3a or later. So I spend my time posting on here and listening to music.

Holly hows your pop doing?

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww , (((((((bearfan))))))))

sounds like a chetbag deck ........ jeez , you kick that weinus to the curb an find your self a gentlemen!!

1:30am...

I wouldn't know, I only talk to him when I'm drinking, so we're on the same level lol

Just kidding! I acutally haven't talked to him for awhile though, I've been soo busy (but yet I find time to post on JSH huh?) hehe

Well, that guy sounds like a terd. He's obviously being selfish. Sounds to me like he likes you, but doesn't want to commit just in case he wants to mess around with someone else. Typical male! Sorry Josh

I just hung out with my "friend" tonight, yeah I know I said I was over it...I'm such a girl, I'm not over it ! lol Althought I'm partially to blame for my situation, I told him originally that I didn't want a relationship because I need freedom. So oh well, I'm free to do what (who) I want now! hehe

HAHAHA Holly... Josh where ya located?

And yeah he likes me, he still wants to be a friend but I think most of it is that he's afraid of committment