I was wondering if anyone could help me with a problem I'm having! There is a woman here on the site,who I see quite regularly, on the bus in coffee shops, I like her! She has not checked her profile in over a month , I was wondering if anyone else has had this experience? And how they dealt with it? Did you just say are you "Profile name" ? We have smiled and said hello

Good luck

I wouldn't use your profile name if your seeing her in person. Be honest with her and do a LOT of listening, talking about yourself all the time isn't a good idea.

Pick up on what she talks about and use that for further questions and maybe add something interesting about yourself at the same time. Good luck.

Be very careful. Sometimes what can be the appeal of the web is that it's virtual and in a way not real. For you to cross into her real world might possibly feel like an invasion of personal space. If it all blows up in your face, you might need to find other coffee shops to hang out in. It might be a case of possibly doing as you yourself suggest and getting it over and done with and approaching rather than delaying and them looking somewhat creepy when the facts finally come out. Good luck.

I agree with you! It is complicated,because if she has not been online in over a month possibly she has found someone? But that is second guessing myself, yes getting it over with is the best thing to do I agree at this time