OK so i have been looking to move and my dad and step mom said it was ok if i moved in with them to save a little money til i do..So i have like a week left in my apt. and my dad say's so when you moving and i said i was going to bring stuff by tommorrow he asked if i was going to my grandma's??? he has known for a month and said it was fine if i moved in with them and neither one of them said anything so WTF!!! Does he not want me to move in there is it a way out by saying he forgot i know we don't have the closest relationship but why would he say yes and then forget a month later? And i called him a couple weeks ago also I dont want to say anything because i don't want to start a fight..

I dont know how old your dad is , maybe he truly forgot or maybe he has alzheimers. just be straight forward and ask him and your step mom again.

You can move in with me darlin. lol

Good luck

He just turned 50 but if i do ask i am affraid that we will end up in a fight like it always does..

Ya what justme said...

Thats what I would do to. Me and my dad dont have the best relationship right now either (due to differing view points/morals/and previous court cases) but I know that he's offered to let me live there if I ever got into problems here at my mom's house. Try and talk to him about it. I mean you have a week to figure out exactly where you are going to live and a week goes by pretty fast.

Thanks crip..

You still have to know where you stand...and really where your going. I would ask him again. This should really be settled, soon.

Good luck....

I dont know how you and your step mom get along , but try to talk to them together and maybe there wont be a fight. Maybe.

Your Welcome Sweety

Maybe step-mom let him know that you wasn't moving in? Do you and her have a good relationship? If not, then she may have brought this change on. If you do have a good relationship with her then I would talk to her first and see what is up and she might be able to talk to your dad and smooth it over so there is no fighting.

We get along ok i guess i will just have to visit with them and see what happens thank you..

We're here to give advice

oh, and don't do anything you don't want to do, if theres any pressure take some time to think and don't make any rash decisions

I don't know i just dont want there to be animosity between us if i do move in we have got along really well for the past year so i may just try and stay in my apt. i dont know one day at a time i guess

just ask him or do the hey remember i'm moving in when ever that is, and say i hope you didn't forget.time has passed and things do get forgotten . try the simple approach first, if that dont work just drive up to your parents house with all your cr*p and say where do you want it. hee haw

do I read some discontent in here is it possible your dad said yes it was OK, but after they were alone she said NO or even don't think about it????????

Trust me....in the interest of maintaining a peaceful relationship....stay on your own!