Topic: Why do younger women flirt and then run off when they aren't
1Nomad365's photo
Sat 03/25/17 12:30 PM
Edited by 1Nomad365 on Sat 03/25/17 12:36 PM
So to start things off I have been fortunate enough to have had 2 great loves in my life.
The thing is one I spent 18yrs with and loved here dearly and in many ways I still do, but I will never share that with her again.
The thing is I seem to always meet women who are attracted to me and then I tell them my age and off they go! lol it's funny to me because I have met women in there mid 20's who have been very flirty up until they find out my age? I'm 52 yrs young! and no I don't feel old but really don't think I look like I am anywhere near there age.
I mean really I don't hide it nor have I ever hid that I am now divorced and have two grown boys again lol and this happens to me all the time! lol yes I do feel flattered that a younger woman has taken the time to smile and look my way!
Thank you for your time hope you have a great day!
:smile:

no photo
Sat 03/25/17 12:41 PM
yeah well, you are old enough to be their father..so it most likely creeped them out.

1Nomad365's photo
Sat 03/25/17 12:47 PM
Well I understand that but the thing is I do not approach them! they have approached me first! I mean I have had younger women approach me while getting groceries who have walked up and said hi how you doing?!

1Nomad365's photo
Sat 03/25/17 12:50 PM
To get this out there no I do not approach them nor am I creep and interested in being with someone who is the same age as my son!

mzrosie's photo
Sat 03/25/17 01:01 PM
ooooh is this a humble brag?




Welcome to Mingle2
don't break too many hearts ok?
biggrin

1Nomad365's photo
Sat 03/25/17 01:03 PM

ooooh is this a humble brag?




Welcome to Mingle2
don't break too many hearts ok?
biggrin


haha I think it's funny too! but no I'm not trying to brag but confusing to me is all...

sybariticguy's photo
Sat 03/25/17 01:22 PM

yeah well, you are old enough to be their father..so it most likely creeped them out.
Electra loves daddy.....

1Nomad365's photo
Sat 03/25/17 01:24 PM


yeah well, you are old enough to be their father..so it most likely creeped them out.
Electra loves daddy.....


You really should read the previous posts before you jump out there...

barbadogirl's photo
Sun 03/26/17 11:22 AM
I don't understand the issue here tell them you are flattered and
move on, unless it truly bothers you.

Some women are into older men. Some are not. But if you are
honest with them about your age and it bothers them move on.

But if you are active in seeking younger woman repost in profile
your age. Some girls are flirty some girls use it to their advantage
be cautious of those girls.

Each to his own, I say whatever floats your boat. Be happy with
every compliment you get. Not all folks age as well.. LOLhappy

1Nomad365's photo
Sun 03/26/17 12:03 PM

I don't understand the issue here tell them you are flattered and
move on, unless it truly bothers you.

Some women are into older men. Some are not. But if you are
honest with them about your age and it bothers them move on.

But if you are active in seeking younger woman repost in profile
your age. Some girls are flirty some girls use it to their advantage
be cautious of those girls.

Each to his own, I say whatever floats your boat. Be happy with
every compliment you get. Not all folks age as well.. LOLhappy


Thank you so much your words have been enlightening, but for the record no I have not been chasing them and that in itself has been part of my confusion. lol I do agree to each his own and thank you for your advise it is taken to heart! Hope you have a great day!

shanu330's photo
Sun 03/26/17 12:44 PM
yeah well, you are old enough to be their father..so it most likely creeped them out.

really awesome reply...

IgorFrankensteen's photo
Sun 03/26/17 12:54 PM
The most logical reason for your repeated experiences, is that you are misinterpreting why these young women approach you in the first place.

If these women are in Liveworld, it is likely that you only think they are genuinely flirting with you, before they learn your age and run off. Lots of people behave in a friendly manner without wanting to have sex with us, after all. And the moment they realize we are mentally going down the "lets have sex or a romance" road, they turn tail.

If it is online, we have to include the strong likelihood that they aren't young women at all. I have gotten used to the fact that every time I log in here for the first time in a day, I trigger the Bots into action. Within a few minutes of my first post of the day, I get "likes," "nudges," and even short messages from things claiming to be very attractive younger women, trying to engage me in conversation.

1Nomad365's photo
Sun 03/26/17 03:25 PM
Edited by 1Nomad365 on Sun 03/26/17 03:34 PM

yeah well, you are old enough to be their father..so it most likely creeped them out.


Really you think so?! wow I really wish some people would read previous posts instead of saying the same thing.

1Nomad365's photo
Sun 03/26/17 03:27 PM

The most logical reason for your repeated experiences, is that you are misinterpreting why these young women approach you in the first place.

If these women are in Liveworld, it is likely that you only think they are genuinely flirting with you, before they learn your age and run off. Lots of people behave in a friendly manner without wanting to have sex with us, after all. And the moment they realize we are mentally going down the "lets have sex or a romance" road, they turn tail.

If it is online, we have to include the strong likelihood that they aren't young women at all. I have gotten used to the fact that every time I log in here for the first time in a day, I trigger the Bots into action. Within a few minutes of my first post of the day, I get "likes," "nudges," and even short messages from things claiming to be very attractive younger women, trying to engage me in conversation.


Thank you sir fresh perspective on what is happening it is appreciated, I am referring to real world vs cyber, which I am well aware of, lol but seriously thank you for your input!

msharmony's photo
Sun 03/26/17 03:28 PM
ahha, the old flirt and run

both sexes do it,, trust me, I experience it regularly here on mingle

1Nomad365's photo
Sun 03/26/17 03:32 PM
Edited by 1Nomad365 on Sun 03/26/17 03:35 PM

ahha, the old flirt and run

both sexes do it,, trust me, I experience it regularly here on mingle


haha lol yes I guess that does sum it up!
I was involved in a hit and run and didn't know it
Thank you :D

1Nomad365's photo
Sun 03/26/17 03:40 PM

So to start things off I have been fortunate enough to have had 2 great loves in my life.
The thing is one I spent 18yrs with and loved here dearly and in many ways I still do, but I will never share that with her again.
The thing is I seem to always meet women who are attracted to me and then I tell them my age and off they go! lol it's funny to me because I have met women in there mid 20's who have been very flirty up until they find out my age? I'm 52 yrs young! and no I don't feel old but really don't think I look like I am anywhere near there age.
I mean really I don't hide it nor have I ever hid that I am now divorced and have two grown boys again lol and this happens to me all the time! lol yes I do feel flattered that a younger woman has taken the time to smile and look my way!
Thank you for your time hope you have a great day!
:smile:


Ok before you say it, it has been said I know it creeped them out! it creeps me out as I have children there age...