Topic: social retard
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Tue 11/20/07 04:18 PM
Not lowering my expectations anymore or raising them. Just flat out done.

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Tue 11/20/07 04:20 PM

Oh racing, i was addressing knoxman on that last bit


Hi Klcflowerforyou .

Hey, just wanted to say that I hope my joke about the wallet didn't bother you. It was only meant as humor, hence the laughing emoticon. Most women don't concern themselves with a man's money, and there are golddiggers in BOTH sexes.

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Tue 11/20/07 04:21 PM
find something that they r interested in and talk about that.

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Tue 11/20/07 04:24 PM
I got that knox, thankslaugh

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Tue 11/20/07 04:24 PM
never give up or think poorly about yourself. if racing is what you love...no harm in talking about it, but try sharing the conversation with things she likes too. heck, even try to combine the two if possible. i was with a guy once who was a nascar fanatic. i had no interest in it. but once i opened my mind and let him teach me about it...i loved it!

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Tue 11/20/07 04:25 PM
Racing, your only alone because you keep turning me down! laugh

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Tue 11/20/07 04:34 PM
thanks MRY and I dont recall turning you down...hhhhmmmmm?

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Tue 11/20/07 04:35 PM
Talking about racing may work w/ some women...it would on me. Just be positive about yourself. If you aren't confident in yourself women can sense it. I know it's what everyone says but just be yourself

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Tue 11/20/07 04:35 PM
I don't recall you emailing me either! laugh

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Tue 11/20/07 04:46 PM

I don't recall you emailing me either! laugh

It's been 11 minutes. Did you email her yet???huh

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Tue 11/20/07 04:48 PM
yes I took the hint! LOL

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Tue 11/20/07 04:50 PM
laugh

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Tue 11/20/07 08:25 PM

One man's opinion:

1. Replace the negative comments about yourself with something positive. You're not a social retard. You're not a 'looser' in marriage. Watch the language. Attitude has a lot to do with it.

2. Please use spell check when writing. Women like to think they're conversing with an intelligent man.

3. Take an active interest in the things women like. What's her favorite book? Then read it. Music? Listen to it. Celebrities? Know them. It seems superficial, but women like to know you're curious about them and their hobbies. Have some of your own to talk about as well. You're right. Not just racing.

4. Be encouraging, supportive and make a woman feel validated.

5. Whatever you do, don't make a woman think that you're desperate. Big turn off there.

Again, just my opinion.

You seem like a cool guy. Good luck, man.

i second that

and if u genuinely want help in a way that brings real changes to your life when it comes to women and dating, i can point u in the right direction. some of my best guy friends are "pickup artists" and can help you immensely.

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Tue 11/20/07 08:27 PM
try to work a discussion of your subwoofer into the conversation drinker

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Tue 11/20/07 08:27 PM
funny i have the gift of gab and i drive women away with it

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Tue 11/20/07 10:06 PM
laugh laugh laugh laugh

Social retard???


Geez...do you get special parking for that?


Socially inept? Says who?

Trying to be a dog amongst a house full of cats is not the way....

be you, and hang out with your own kind of people...

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Tue 11/20/07 10:08 PM

I consider myself to have an excellent "gift of gab"......

.....not that it makes a lot of difference. Women can smell an empty wallet a mile awaylaugh .


No wonder I'm dateless

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Tue 11/20/07 10:09 PM
Edited by fortsmithman on Tue 11/20/07 10:10 PM

Not lowering my expectations anymore or raising them. Just flat out done.


I'm probably with her on that done just looking for friends now.

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Thu 11/22/07 06:57 AM
Racing is fine but make it more interesting like the woman can participate. Personally I dont care for watching 50 painted billboards drive around a track for 4 hours..but i wouldnt mind sitting in a race car with a beautiful driver. just sounds like more fun.

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Thu 11/22/07 11:01 AM
Talking about any one subject gets boring......ok where is my eyes glazing over emoticon???noway laugh laugh laugh