Topic: Review please
KidGloves84's photo
Sat 04/15/17 05:34 AM
Not getting messages or replies. Badly written profile, unattractive, something else?
Thanks

PacificStar48's photo
Sat 04/15/17 05:37 PM
I don't know why you are not getting responses but for some reason your vibe gives me an uneasy feeling. You seem too interested in a woman with a kid.

That you have a hat and a sleeveless undershirt on in one photo is negative.

That you say you work for the county could suggest you are either incarcerated or a welfare worker neither endearing.

Cecefield's photo
Sat 04/15/17 08:47 PM
Nothing wrong with your profile. Sometimes this site is slow...

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 04/15/17 08:54 PM
Not getting messages or replies. Badly written profile, unattractive, something else?
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Answer: Impatience



That you say you work for the county could suggest you are either incarcerated or a welfare worker neither endearing.


huh It would take a wild imagination to interpret "I work for the county" that way.

KidGloves84's photo
Mon 04/17/17 05:39 AM
Edited by KidGloves84 on Mon 04/17/17 06:24 AM

I don't know why you are not getting responses but for some reason your vibe gives me an uneasy feeling. You seem too interested in a woman with a kid.

That you have a hat and a sleeveless undershirt on in one photo is negative.

That you say you work for the county could suggest you are either incarcerated or a welfare worker neither endearing.




Ok I made those few minor changes. I am no longer incarcerated or a welfare worker. Funny how they would instantly think it must be one of those two possibilities.

KidGloves84's photo
Mon 04/17/17 05:41 AM
Edited by KidGloves84 on Mon 04/17/17 06:19 AM

Not getting messages or replies. Badly written profile, unattractive, something else?
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Answer: Impatience



Guess I'd rather not spend 7 years on a dating site like you have.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 04/17/17 10:02 AM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Mon 04/17/17 10:13 AM
Duplicate post

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 04/17/17 10:09 AM


Not getting messages or replies. Badly written profile, unattractive, something else?
Thanks

Answer: Impatience



That you say you work for the county could suggest you are either incarcerated or a welfare worker neither endearing.


huh It would take a wild imagination to interpret "I work for the county" that way.


Guess it is a "slang" thing that doesn't compute to some but saying you "work for the county" in some circles, particularly poor, or anyone one public assistance, or anyone who is jailed ( and is seeking online via contraband phones) or under house arrest or extended probation and parole and can not get a job says they work for the county.

Is it particularly flattering to legit county employees that such slang exists or the unknowing inadvertently use it? No

But don't hang the messenger if you don't want the message.

Especially since this is a free site and we have many poor who would steer clear or might want to steer clear of
someone using such self descriptors.

I find for some a prisoner or or someone on public assistance actually has an allure. To each their own.


PacificStar48's photo
Mon 04/17/17 10:10 AM
Edited by PacificStar48 on Mon 04/17/17 10:17 AM
sorry another duplicate post.

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 04/17/17 10:23 AM


Not getting messages or replies. Badly written profile, unattractive, something else?
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Answer: Impatience



Guess I'd rather not spend 7 years on a dating site like you have.



Only have to read how people respond to REQUESTED advice to see why they struggle socially.

For the record many who still post on this site do it out of kindness because they either choose to be single or have actually successfully found significant others or spouses here.

zzr11's photo
Mon 04/17/17 10:30 AM
Hi ..im new here

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Mon 04/17/17 11:20 AM

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Mon 04/17/17 11:24 AM


Not getting messages or replies. Badly written profile, unattractive, something else?
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Answer: Impatience



Guess I'd rather not spend 7 years on a dating site like you have.



That's not nice sad2


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Mon 04/17/17 11:27 AM
No, but neither was her initial response. I'd say they're even.

KimmiA33's photo
Thu 04/20/17 05:01 PM

Not getting messages or replies. Badly written profile, unattractive, something else?
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You may need a few additional photos but otherwise it's fine.

Good luck!:thumbsup: