CrystalFairy,

I give you example, woman are now in our military, and on the fore front. Women are WWE wrestlers like the late Joanie Laurie aka " Chyna". Women are in power, judges, police officers all these fields are male dominating careers. in our society, we teach a woman to be sweet, smelling sweet as bee pollen. Wear dresses, make up , perfume, sit with your legs crossed like a true lady. Let a man take care of you. Hold back your tongue just to massage a mans ego. Working hard labor, let that for the men. Pain your toes and fingers. I don't disagree with be who you are. Wanting to be pretty, sexy every once and a while. Where I getting at is women play just as much of a part in war as us men. See as men we can't wait to push that little red button to end mankind, but a woman with her nurturing ways as sweet she can be can be just as deadly to war then men.

Yes, of course women can, why shouldn't we? The same goes for children, but that doesn't make children warriors by nature. They've been trained, brainwashed that way by their society and direct environment.

I'm not sure if women still get reared the way you describe. Maybe in the US, maybe only certain areas in the US, not sure. But overall women are reared in a masculine society, and being, behaving, becoming more masculine gets ingrained in our systems from the word go.
We have to have a career, get good results at school, succeed at our jobs, compete with others to do so. Even parents can come down on you when you don't do well at school and don't get good grades.
But in actual fact all these things are masculine energy qualities, not feminine... (Getting results, focusing on things to get the results, competing, succeeding etc = masculine)

The fact that women can now also be police officers, military and so on is only part of getting back our equality. True equality I mean, not the superficial chit. And we're still not there yet.
Many women thrive when they're more masculine, but remember most don't have a choice. Many have to make it out there on their own without support from the masculine, so you simply have to become less feminine in order to survive. Most aren't consciously aware of this as we have been reared this way and/or we simply have no other choice.
And sure, if a woman steps into her masculine energy, why shouldn't she be as good at is?
But to be honest, it makes me wonder what kind of a woman she is... You can not be all woman while at work you are almost 100% man.
If you pay heed, you'll notice that many career women are tough cookies. THere's not much soft, vulnerable etc about them anymore. And again, soft and approachable is not weak, it is our strength!

Funny you mention being sexy or dressing up sexy, cos that actually again is... masculine, lol. Because of the intention behind it. 9 out of 10 times when a woman does that she does it to feel in control, to get attention, to subconsciously want to look better than other women (competition). It's a very outwardly, focused energy thing, which is masculine. THere a goal to it, even if she's not aware of it.
If you don't get what I mean right away... just think about it yourself.. a woman coming up to you in stockings and garters because she wants your attention, to distract you from your sports game (or whatever)..
OR a woman entering the room in garters and stockings because she feels truly sexy.
In this case she does it for herself, because she is sexy, feels sexy, wants to be sexy. In the first scenario she does it because she wants something. As far as I know men feel the difference in that... the difference being one is a masculine approach, the latter a feminine one.

In any case, yes, women can be lethal just as well. From what I've heard women can even be far worse with torture than men. But that doesn't mean this is the true real feminine, nor does it make women warriors.
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Holy crap.

Blasphemy!

CrystalFairy,

Welcome back to my cyber mansion, see you got to understand women even animal mommies its in your instinct to fight & be protectors. Let me give you give you example in a Lion herd, usually the female Lions do all the hunting. While she has a kill in her mouth to take back to the cubs the male Lion just watch the cubs and protect the cubs while mom out hunting. Now every now and then the male Lion will spot a kill and bring it home to the female & the cubs, the male Lion will give the cubs and momma Lion to eat first....so where I'm getting at is that women are just as much warriors as us men.

I will NEVER FORGET " Helen Of Troy "

Bloody Tart, SHE STARTED A WAR
But must women DO ANYWAY

Funzy65,

Okkkkkaaaayyyy.....I'm glad you like my example.