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Topic: Am I being rude?
Lied2TimedSweetie's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:54 AM
Some guys send me a message saying,"Hey sexy, let's talk." First off, I'm not going to talk to someone because they think I'm "sexy". Second off, their picture is fake and it's obvious. I don't talk to guys who cant take the time to put a REAL photo of themselves on their profile. So when they email me, I say,"No thanks. I don't talk to people who dont post a real photo of themselves. Nice talking to you. bye."

Am I being rude?

rozey2680's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:55 AM
no, you're being realflowerforyou

Queene123's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:56 AM
wel it would piss me off as well if they called me sexy as if i was with a guy, then i wouldnt mind, but that guy you dont even know, and you never know he could be a stalker, a freekonoway noway

scttrbrain's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:56 AM
In my opinion; nope. Sexy; implying they are sexually interested?
No pic is also questionable.
Kat

karmafury's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:57 AM
No, you are not being rude.

rowdybrooke21's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:57 AM
Maybe you posting this will give people the idea to quit the crap. We arent here for games or just to look at lol. Well sometimes we are if your in the right forum..lol. Have a good one!!!

peachiegirl28's photo
Mon 11/26/07 09:59 AM
being you and being real and true to yourself is not rude....high five gurlieflowerforyou

trustingfate's photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:00 AM
If someone emails me with hey sexy, I dont even bother to reply...I want someone to like me for me, and that's not saying they are interested me me, just my body...so **** um....obviously not my type.

Lied2TimedSweetie's photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:00 AM
Thanks so much, guys! lol rowdy...no kidding, man! We're not just to look at! We are women here actually looking for someone and if they can't be real enough to be themselves, why bother?!

no photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:02 AM
U r right and as long as when heart talk so keep going

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Mon 11/26/07 10:02 AM
U r right and as long as when heart talk so keep going

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Mon 11/26/07 10:02 AM
U r right and as long as when heart talk so keep going

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Mon 11/26/07 10:02 AM
U r right and as long as when heart talk so keep going

MicheleNC's photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:07 AM
No, you are not being rude at all. When I get such messages, I ask if they bothered to read my profile. I am dating someone currently. The responses are funny and sad at the same time.

flowerforyou M

shady7414's photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:09 AM
I dont know I have a blue box on mine

no photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:09 AM
I am sorry guys i have click 4 time the same button because of the bad connection

no photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:10 AM
No, you're not being rude at all. It's about self respect. If they have to call a woman any kind of name ("sexy, cute, dear, honey, etc.."), there's a huge problem right from the start. It's one thing for a woman to be called that by her boyfriend or husband, but not by a stranger, ever.

no photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:11 AM
Shawn:
That's ok, you should see the mistakes I'm making today. laugh laugh

no photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:13 AM
No rudenss, u are just being up front and honest!!!

ICstarz's photo
Mon 11/26/07 10:16 AM
You obviousley know what your looking for. People will photo shop a picture for better quality as well. Opening lines are tough for some, If you think it is a fraud ask for new pics. Would love to chat more about this or whatever is on your mind.

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