The friendship category is a tricky one EyeAm, when it comes to people of the opposite sex .


1. Some people profess a desire for friendship but actually prefer an acquaintance status where they have minimum contact with the person.

2. Some people in the friendzone try to challenge that status by flirting , which can become very awkward, or they can be easily offended by the person they like because they long to be loved by the other person wo doesnt requite their feelings.

3. Even when both persons are genuine about the friendzone, sometimes one person discovers certain incompatabilities in the other person that affects their ability to sustain the close friendship that they originally wanted

4. If the person in the friendzone has intense romantic feelings for the other person, then they often need some time apart for those feelings to fade , but it is seldom ever communicated or understood , which often leads to someone getting hurt.

I am very comfortable in the friendzone but it only works out if the guy and I are somehow able to get on the same page.

The person in the friendzone too often ends up being hurt, and thats why it’s something I approach very carefully now. Friendships aren’t meant to be traumatic.

Peggy122,

Hey baby girl well see im from the school of thought that friends are plutonic nothing more nothing less. Once you cross the line in the sand and have sex with that friend well.....its becomes a sexual relationship. Some people dont know the real difference between plutonic and sexual. Now a days beware when a person say " baby i got my friend on the phone" does she or he means homie. Does it mean BFF? Or there lover?

ive never had a chick friend. once they use the f word I use one of my own and thats it

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okay, a person that keep it short, simple, and rapid....lol