Topic: communicating
bucksmom's photo
Thu 07/13/17 04:05 PM
I am really tired of the run around. You see a guy your interested in, profile works well, age wise and distance is great. As a woman, I tend to be shy, but at this point, it's like, who cares? So I send an email, get a decent response, and then nothing. Do these men think they have to do nothing? SICK OF IT

NotPay4Play's photo
Thu 07/13/17 05:42 PM

I am really tired of the run around. You see a guy your interested in, profile works well, age wise and distance is great. As a woman, I tend to be shy, but at this point, it's like, who cares? So I send an email, get a decent response, and then nothing. Do these men think they have to do nothing? SICK OF IT


Some might think so. Or maybe they thought the conversation was over. But it does take back and forth communication for those of us who are free here. So if they send you a message and you not respond back they can not send you one again.

TVcameraman's photo
Thu 07/13/17 07:01 PM

I am really tired of the run around. You see a guy your interested in, profile works well, age wise and distance is great. As a woman, I tend to be shy, but at this point, it's like, who cares? So I send an email, get a decent response, and then nothing. Do these men think they have to do nothing? SICK OF IT


People not answering back is common for both sexes. I have sent emails to different people, and many have never responded. But, I have had a few respond, and they are the jewels. I find that engaging people in the forums seems to get a better chance of responses. It helps others get a better view of your opinions, etc on things. But, even if you just email, try talking about things that may have mutual interest to both of you.
But, don't give up.
Have a great day.

Basha's photo
Fri 07/14/17 12:04 AM

I am really tired of the run around. You see a guy your interested in, profile works well, age wise and distance is great. As a woman, I tend to be shy, but at this point, it's like, who cares? So I send an email, get a decent response, and then nothing. Do these men think they have to do nothing? SICK OF IT



I msgd 10 peeps sterday...not even a single decent reply!!!!...yea....not even one!!!!

tah2x's photo
Mon 07/17/17 07:16 AM
I myself don't reply, if I don't feel like them.
It's my way of not wasting either of our time.
Replying to someone's mail means you like them or just simply acknowledging his/her msg.. just trying to be nice.

Some people, after exchanging convo...they are asking for your skype or viber because they wanted to have a direct contact with the person.